bklynLadee
Well-Known Member
So,
A few months ago, I posted about some things that were happening in my marriage. If I had to describe what life has been like over these past few months---i'd say it felt like a hurricane.
I can't say that there was anything particularly CRAZY about my marriage. I felt like we had some things to work through, I considered divorce, but I felt that at the bare minimum---it was fixable.
Fast forward to today, which is just about over 6 months since this last post:
https://longhaircareforum.com/threa...ding-to-what-your-husband-can-provide.799513/
My husband and I are officially going through a divorce.
I am recommitting to my goals and dreams. I am recommitting to learning to love myself. I am recommitting myself to being single.
Some big things have been happening in my life since going through this divorce. I've gained so much support and love that it is absolutely overwhelming. A friend of mine gifted a workshop by Momentum and it was literally LIFE CHANGING! I learned so much about me, and gained some life long friends a long the way. I plan on continuing my work with a life coach so I can map out my future plans with support and accountability. Because I was a stay-at-home mom and left Texas to NYC with pretty much nothing, I decided to create a GoFundMe account (that I will not share here). I should be able to pay for my workshops in FULL within the next couple of weeks. I only have about $300 to raise!!!!!
If you want to be friends on FB you can PM me so you can watch my journey if you'd like. Once I get started I plan on doing monthly videos on my triumphs and challenges.
Emotional Health
My emotions are still on a roller coaster ride but I'm giving myself the permission to go through the highs and lows. After all, I'm only 31, my husband and I have been together for 15 years and its going to take some time to purge.
Physical
I'm reconnecting to me being a goddess and I've scooped up a couple of gorgeous friends who have helped me to revamp my wardrobe, my hair is finally waist length! my skin is a work in progress--but I've gotten my acne under control just working on some marks.
I hired a personal trainer (I work out with him 3x a week). I am doing a low-carb diet on days that I rest, and I eat 100+ g of carbs on days that I train! I'm giving myself 90 days to whip this bawdy into shape and I'm excited about it.
Spiritual
I'm reading: Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyers and I do my daily affirmations, things i'm grateful for and what my offerings to the world will be for the day.
Just wanted to share my updates, and also hear from you all on any suggestions you may have as far as MOVING FORWARD! PALANTE!
A few months ago, I posted about some things that were happening in my marriage. If I had to describe what life has been like over these past few months---i'd say it felt like a hurricane.
I can't say that there was anything particularly CRAZY about my marriage. I felt like we had some things to work through, I considered divorce, but I felt that at the bare minimum---it was fixable.
Fast forward to today, which is just about over 6 months since this last post:
https://longhaircareforum.com/threa...ding-to-what-your-husband-can-provide.799513/
My husband and I are officially going through a divorce.
I am recommitting to my goals and dreams. I am recommitting to learning to love myself. I am recommitting myself to being single.
Some big things have been happening in my life since going through this divorce. I've gained so much support and love that it is absolutely overwhelming. A friend of mine gifted a workshop by Momentum and it was literally LIFE CHANGING! I learned so much about me, and gained some life long friends a long the way. I plan on continuing my work with a life coach so I can map out my future plans with support and accountability. Because I was a stay-at-home mom and left Texas to NYC with pretty much nothing, I decided to create a GoFundMe account (that I will not share here). I should be able to pay for my workshops in FULL within the next couple of weeks. I only have about $300 to raise!!!!!
If you want to be friends on FB you can PM me so you can watch my journey if you'd like. Once I get started I plan on doing monthly videos on my triumphs and challenges.
Emotional Health
My emotions are still on a roller coaster ride but I'm giving myself the permission to go through the highs and lows. After all, I'm only 31, my husband and I have been together for 15 years and its going to take some time to purge.
Physical
I'm reconnecting to me being a goddess and I've scooped up a couple of gorgeous friends who have helped me to revamp my wardrobe, my hair is finally waist length! my skin is a work in progress--but I've gotten my acne under control just working on some marks.
I hired a personal trainer (I work out with him 3x a week). I am doing a low-carb diet on days that I rest, and I eat 100+ g of carbs on days that I train! I'm giving myself 90 days to whip this bawdy into shape and I'm excited about it.
Spiritual
I'm reading: Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyers and I do my daily affirmations, things i'm grateful for and what my offerings to the world will be for the day.
Just wanted to share my updates, and also hear from you all on any suggestions you may have as far as MOVING FORWARD! PALANTE!