No secret babe...hard work and lots and lots of patience.
I have been trying to get my hair to bra strap length at least since 2000. I have had several set backs along the way - mostly trims turned into cuts against my will. All times my hair was cut to chin length. Every time I got just past shoulder length they'd cut it off. I stopped getting trims altogether for a while but didn't like the way my hair was looking. Eventually I decided to trim once every other relaxer and that's been working for me.
I am also really really anal about my trims. I make the girl show me what's she's cut each and every time she snips.....for the entire trimming session. /images/graemlins/blush.gif
The steaming is something I just kind of do because they offer that service at this particular salon. They put everyone under the streamer, not the dryer, to deep condition. Not sure why and I don't notice a HUGE difference between the steamer and the hooded dryer....unless that's why my hair comes out feeling and looking the way it does from there - but I doubt it. I still think it's the Olive Oil. That's the kind of conditioner I suspect they are using - it's a special formula she mixes up with a Dominican Olive Oil Rinse base. She won't confirm or deny ingredients.