Petty Chronicles: Jealous Of The Dead Wife

[IslandMummy]

This would be grounds for immediate divorce.

 

[rileypak]

 

[Pat Mahurr]

Omg! No coming back from that!

She threw away the girl’s memories of her mother?!!

I’ve got nothing!

 

[janaq2003]

That lowdown beast.
That's so heartless, selfish and cruel.
If I was the daughter there would be some slow singing and flower bringing in that house when I fouND out.

 

[SlimPickinz]

Someone told her to get an abortion and a divorce. Mannnnnnn

 

[Abibi]

I really can't stand it when people don't think through things beforehand.

 

[Kiowa]

That's a toughie...I still slip up and call my new brother's wife by his late wife's name...accidentally on purpose
It's hard for a spouse having to compete with a dead prior spouse...

 

[Kanky]

She's a terrible person. She needs to go before her stepdaughter finds out what happened.

 

[IslandMummy]

I really can't stand it when people don't think through things beforehand.

I’m sure she thought about it, just not the far reaching complications

 

[pre_medicalrulz]

She's a terrible person. She needs to go before her stepdaughter finds out what happened.

Yea def a terrible person. She doesn't deserve that family.

 

[MzLady78]

Man, all that back story is irrelevant.

This is up, no ifs, ands or buts about it.

 

[ladysaraii]

I mean, she couldn't have shipped the things to her in laws house for safe keeping if she didn't want them in hers?

Like I get wanting a new house, I get not wanting the photos up.... But dag.

If I was cruel enough to do that, I think I would take that to the grave.

 

[mrselle]

I don't feel sorry for this woman. Not one bit. She is emotionally immature, thoughtless and just plain mean. Now the daughter has nothing that belonged to her mother. Pictures are gone. There was probably something for the daughter to carry with her on her wedding day. Now its gone.

 

[Abibi]

I’m sure she thought about it, just not the far reaching complications

That's what I meant. She only thought about it in regards to how she feels, she didn't consider or care about how it would affect everyone else.

 

[qchelle]

Someone told her to get an abortion and a divorce. Mannnnnnn

ROFLLLLL

 

[lisatamika]

Mannnnnn, I'm a widow and if my FH knows to even watch what he says and what questions to ask about my late DH but she THREW AWAY something that cannot be replaced. I'm seeing red right now.

I get that it's hard to compete with a deceased spouse, especially if the marriage was good up until the end, but that's just dirty. That's not even being jealous/petty, this is something else. I don't even know what.

Let me go have a drink

 

[LiftedUp]

She should've given her inlaws boxes with the pictures. This is truly devastating. I feel so badly for his daughter. All those memories dumped like they were nothing.

 

[LostInAdream]

He’s going to leave her. As he should she’s heartless to do such a thing. I feel for the husband and daughter. I wouldn’t be able to look at her ever again, if I were the husband or daughter.

 

[RUBY]

Someone told her to get an abortion and a divorce. Mannnnnnn

That's what you call straight no chaser advice.

Basically, this woman's marriage is over. She can try to salvage it and keep it going for a few years especially with the baby but....eventually it will end.
And I think she knew exactly what she was doing. She isn't close to her step daughter and just didn't think it would come out so quickly. She was probably banking on them forgetting and thinking the boxes were in the attic somewhere and 'lost' after many years.

 

[melisandre]

She’s evil. He needs to leave her. She knew he was a widower. If she couldn’t handle living in his wife’s shadow, then why marry him in the first place?

 

[RoundEyedGirl504]

That is such a disgusting thing to do. I don't know if their marriage will survive. At minimum her stepdaughter who she wasn't close to will now hate her guts.

 

[Sosoothing]

What she did is horrible but I think the mistake she made was choosing to be with a man who hadn't completed grieving.
I can understand the anger and disappointment that the daughter has lost valuable memories and keepsakes of her mother. But from my understanding, her husband and in-laws are still too attached to old wife.

If I'm going to be with a man, he better be ready for me and only me physically mentally and emotionally. Whether his ex is dead or alive.

 

[SlimPickinz]

ROFLLLLL

I bust out laughing when I read that honestly. I may or may not agree with the comment.

 

[Miss617]

I bust out laughing when I read that honestly. I may or may not agree with the comment.

I'll say it: I agree. But I think the husband will file first.

 

[Philippians413]

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[Philippians413]

My blood pressure went up while reading this.

 

[Philippians413]

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[MilkChocolateOne]

evil b#$@^

 

[BackToMyRoots]

What an evil B! I'm so angry reading this. The poor daughter. All the memories of her mom, gone.

Divorce! She's vile.

 

[bellatiamarie]

How exactly does one complete the grieving process? I've never seen it done. That's his deceased wife and mother of his daughter. That's not something one should be expected to just get over and forget. And I didn't see anything in the post that would allude to the fact that he was wallowing in grief at the time that they got together.

The new wife said that in the beginning he had pictures in his home and he, the daughter, friends and family talked about the deceased wife. If new wife couldn't handle them discussing deceased wife that speaks more to her own insecurities than anything. Are they supposed to act like she never existed how does that work?

She said that there was only one photo up of the wife in their new house so what exactly is the problem with keeping the other photos and other keepsakes stored away? She also said that he hadn't noticed the items were missing for 2 whole years so clearly he wasn't flipping thru old photo albums and reminiscing of old times. She need her ass whooped for throwing that stuff away with her trifling insecure ass. How you tryna compete with a dead person.

Did anyone else notice that she wrote "ex wife" in the Reddit post? Maybe I missed something but she is his late wife not ex wife, correct? There is a difference between the two.

What she did is horrible but I think the mistake she made was choosing to be with a man who hadn't completed grieving.
I can understand the anger and disappointment that the daughter has lost valuable memories and keepsakes of her mother. But from my understanding, her husband and in-laws are still too attached to old wife.

If I'm going to be with a man, he better be ready for me and only me physically mentally and emotionally. Whether his ex is dead or alive.