i keep noticing a trend, i've noticed multiple posts mentioning a woman wanting a doctor or a man with an ivy league education, but she only has a high school education. when will we learn, men are not women, they don't care about your education. some men care, b/c they want to be a power couple, these men are usually in new york or dc, and care about their "on paper" wife. otherwise, they dont care. you can be a struggling flutist, artist, poet, ect with no formal education, as long as you are pretty, can possibly cook, and are funny and or fun to be around you meet their expectations in dating.
back on topic i dont really know anyone irl who has unrealistic expectations. i have a friend who i feel will sabotage or won't give a guy a chance b/c of fear, like someone else stated they dont really want a relationship so they build a wall. i think she subconciouslly picks losers and sticks with these losers through thick and thin all while complaining about how men aren't s$#t, to further prove her point, although she could've easily dated someone who was sane, but says, i dont date light skin guys, oh he's a leo, we aren't compatable. and i'm steady thinking, but you will date ole boy who blatantly told you he lied to have sex with you, and wants to continue seeing his other pseudo girlfriend? okay /end rant. but anyways, other than that, most of the women i know irl, would be equally yoked with what they are seeing. i guess they would be unicorns, they are beautiful, fit, fun, great personalities, educated professionals, who cook and clean, but are in cities where these type of women are a dime a dozen however, so its all a numbers game. also, consider your social circle. my previous social circle was filled with doctors, lawyers, pharmacist, engineers, ect so it was no problem finding these type of men. the problem, was again, a numbers game. finding a man who was handsome, educated, and interested in being in a monogamous relationship. thats the real issue.