michelle81
Well-Known Member
I'm close to my sister who is 5 years younger than me. My parents made a point of making sure were close. They never made differences between us nor allowed arguments to fester or escalate. I would have gotten my teeth knocked out if I ever told my sister I hated her, some things as parents you simply cannot allow, different personalities be damned.
Some of it can be helped. My mom favors my younger sister and even stands up for her when she is attacking one of us. She called me numerous names during a conversation last year and mom just took up for her. There's no way I'd let my children do that to each other, even as adults.