BronzyBella
Well-Known Member
Last week, I met a guy at a cultural event. We had a lot in common (went to the same college, have parents of the same background, etc.) and we exchanged numbers. A couple days later, he texted me then we spoke for about an hour and I told him that I was sometimes free on the weekend if he wanted to get together, thinking he would only call/text regarding that.
Since then, he's been texting me almost everyday, asking the questions a BF would ask, "What do you have planned today/What are you doing?" "Where are you now?" "How's your day going?" etc.
I'm 29, he's 26. I'm not interested in a relationship right now, just getting to know new people - casually date and met new friends. I don't date much, but the men I dated last were between 33 and 38, and were much more laidback.
From what I know about him so far, he works part-time, lives on his own, and has no kids. He's attractive and well spoken. My intuition isn't sending me any signals right now... should I be keeping an eye out for signs of emotional instability/undisclosed baggage/a con, etc?
Has anyone had any (negative) experiences with overly attentive men? What were the warning signs that something was off?
Since then, he's been texting me almost everyday, asking the questions a BF would ask, "What do you have planned today/What are you doing?" "Where are you now?" "How's your day going?" etc.
I'm 29, he's 26. I'm not interested in a relationship right now, just getting to know new people - casually date and met new friends. I don't date much, but the men I dated last were between 33 and 38, and were much more laidback.
From what I know about him so far, he works part-time, lives on his own, and has no kids. He's attractive and well spoken. My intuition isn't sending me any signals right now... should I be keeping an eye out for signs of emotional instability/undisclosed baggage/a con, etc?
Has anyone had any (negative) experiences with overly attentive men? What were the warning signs that something was off?