SunnyDelight
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"To each his (her) own". Why does anyone owe someone else an explanation of anything? Its hair - not that serious.
Yes that was the pic I was trying to post. It showed up for me *shrugs*
I guess I just feel like Oprah shouldve said, "There are times that I DO wear weaves but in that pic, that is my REAL HAIR."
But youre probably right. Its not that serious. And Im sure to most of us on LHCF it really ISNT that serious. I just remember back in HS, and even now.,.some of my female friends hate themselves due to blacks taking on the european standards.
"To each his (her) own". Why does anyone owe someone else an explanation of anything? Its hair - not that serious.
I completely agree with this part. And it also sounds like most of you guys have not seen that particular episode. She was clearly answering 2 FAQs at the end of her show, which I saw all of. But here's a clip I found for you.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/04/24/oprah-defends-her-hair-th_n_191287.html
BTW, she would be a fool not to wear weaves/wigs. Cause I wouldn't let a stylist damage my natural hair either.
Yes, this was taken out of context. That still didn't stop the 'Why don't people think black women can't have long hair?' crew from speaking up in that other thread. People assumed her straight, pressed style was a weave because Oprah does indeed wear weaves at times. When Oprah came out and said that style was her real hair, people started with the 'That's sad, black women are always accused of wearing weaves.' Well duh, people who knew that Oprah wears weaves and wigs would naturally think her pressed style was a wig.
Ty for your adding to the thread. It's just a discussion though I'm not threatening Oprah with a spoon or nothing.<3"To each his (her) own". Why does anyone owe someone else an explanation of anything? Its hair - not that serious.
I saw a show once where she said she wore weaves- especially in the summer to give her hair a rest and this was in the late 90's so it was no big secret.
I think a lot of celebs wear weaves and wigs because their hair would not survive the constant style changes. I remember reading that Maddona had constant hair issues in the 80's and 90's due to all the dye jobs etc before weaves/hair peices became so popular. So I imagine for people who have afro hair they have to ensure they protect their hair from constant styling procedures even more so because our hair needs more TLC to thrive.
LMAOOOOO TRUE!That woman has the $ to do whatever she wants to her hair, just as we do. Weaves are just another styling option in my opinion. If someone sported a weave and said it was their hair, they are still right because they bought it.
OP I totally understand how you feel but I do believe you've got her statement totally wrong. At no time did she say she doesn't or never wear weaves. As a matter of fact, that picture with the weave is one of her old styles that she wore over and over before she started pressing her hair straight and wearing it out. On the day she made the statement that "this was all her hair", that was the day she did not have any extensions and she was sporting her real pressed hair out for a couple of shows before she went on break.
The issue is not that weaves are sending a bad message, it's about leading people to believe all that indian yaky sewn onto your scalp is actually growing from it. I have no problem with weaves or wigs, but I would be upset if someone said "yeah this is my hair" then a track fell out.
OP, oprah was responding to a direct question. She was asked what kind of weave she had when she was wearing her hair straight, and she said that that was actually her hair. Then she showed a picture of herself in the morning with unstraightened hair; she never said she presses her hair everyday either.
She never said that the curly style was her hair. She never said that she does not wear wigs or weaves. But why would anyone broadcast the fact that they wear a wig from time to time, you don't hear me talking about my wig at work either.
So she never lied
Ok so I just watched the video a second time and the question was "Am I wearing a weave" -- I am quoting her words. Her answer to the question was not a lie. She answered "No" because at that moment she was wearing her real hair (it's beautiful by the way); however it's what she DIDN'T say that has people curious. If she was going to answer the question why not add; but yes I do sometimes wear tracks, wig, etc...
Again, I love Oprah, but this to me was a little misleading. This is an example of what celebrities do sometimes and we have to remember that. I don't think she is a liar either. Nor do I really care if her hair is real or fake, but I do get interested when someone very cleverly leaves information out. It's kinda funny. I'm just sayin...
Yes it is very clever, but we all do it. People are not in public discussing their mega padded bra, girdles, or make up secrets. However, when we have something that we our proud of, like having pretty hair, most of us are quick to correct people that it is not a weave. At then end of the day you can't please everyone, people will assume what they want