***Online Dating Support Thread***

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anyhoo

back to business as usual
 
I can't screenshot because I'm not on my phone, but some dumb arse sent me this. He can't be serious

Wow! You are the second person that i have had to set straight about the question, can people of color be racist. The last time i told someone off, she erased all her ****. Ok first of all racism is not assigned to certain races. Racism is a human being problem. It applies to ALL human beings of ALL races not just white people. Here is my story. As you can see from my pic, I do not look black but both of my parents are just high yella. i went to predominately black elementary school in PG county where I had to fight almost everyday because the black kids called me white *****. And I had this friend who was also an outcast for a different reason. He was very dark so when the kids would see us coming down the hall, they said here comes white ***** and burnt toast. My mother who is also very light went to all black segregated schools in DC in the 50's where the black girls would put chewing gum in her hair because it was straight hair. I have caught racism from black and white people. i am glad that you apparently did not suffer racism from anyone of color but that does not mean it does not exist. You can be downtrodden and disenfranchised and still put down your fellow brother because racism is a human characteristic, we all have it in us whether we display it or not. David
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i cant believe dude is going through peoples questions just to badger them about his idiotic thoughts on racism. shut up, bro.
 
CaraWalker said:
my okcupid is popping today. i just got a message from this 26 year old

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TWENTY SIX! ytf yo ass playing boah :lachen:

he aint even try to play it off as like 29, or more humbly 33 or so... bruh said **** it, ima go for the gold :lachen:
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Iunno man. We just celebrated a yt coworkers birthday. I thought he was wayyyy into his 30s with the baggage to match. Dude was 29. Like, that's how they age man. If you like it just check his ID. I've done that ish before (he was telling the truth, lol)
 
NaturallyBri87 said:
lol it's so annoying. No one actually takes the time to read profiles. They just look at pics and send a message like "so what's your name?" When my name is on my profile. I just can not lol.
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Aww man, my online manners must be bad. I don't read profiles either, I skim to make sure there isn't anything crazy in there. I tell people up front, this might be in your profile but my memory is bad lol!
 
RoundEyedGirl504 said:
Aww man, my online manners must be bad. I don't read profiles either, I skim to make sure there isn't anything crazy in there. I tell people up front, this might be in your profile but my memory is bad lol!
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lol. I always read profiles...I need to see what they're talking about before I write back lol. And I also check for grammar, spelling, all that.
 
this dude on pof just sent me a message like "are you from such and such neighborhood in chicago?" like he said the exact neighborhood i grew up in. we are the same age and he doesn't look familiar at all. and none of my friends recognize him either. interesting
 
keyawarren said:
Dude,

Tell me how this guy hits me up online. Interesting profile, well written, nice vibe and all. We even message each other for a bit. But once we exchange numbers and he starts texting me, he seems dumb. Not young, but dumb. His writing is poor and even what he says is dumb.

How the hell did this happen??
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ms.mimi said:
Saw this on a wahm board. I'm like ....WOW! smh


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?
 
Are the paid sites better than the free sites? I'm thinking of joining match.com and blackpeoplemeet.com. What do you guys think? What has been your luck?
 
GraceJones said:
Are the paid sites better than the free sites? I'm thinking of joining match.com and blackpeoplemeet.com. What do you guys think? What has been your luck?
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Ime, no they are not.

I've had more luck on the free sites. But now I'm reluctant to give advice being that I'm still single.
 
keyawarren said:
Ime, no they are not.

I've had more luck on the free sites. But now I'm reluctant to give advice being that I'm still single.
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I'm the cobbler with no shoes. my advice is solid but i ain't go no man.

my tinder is poppin i just made it over the wknd 50+ matches and my first date last night he tombout going to Greece and Vietnam.....my passport is ready
 
PretteePlease said:
I'm the cobbler with no shoes. my advice is solid but i ain't go no man.

my tinder is poppin i just made it over the wknd 50+ matches and my first date last night he tombout going to Greece and Vietnam.....my passport is ready
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Are you single by choice? Cus honey, I'm not :lol:
 
PretteePlease said:
I'm the cobbler with no shoes. my advice is solid but i ain't go no man.

my tinder is poppin i just made it over the wknd 50+ matches and my first date last night he tombout going to Greece and Vietnam.....my passport is ready
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Share your advice. Do you swipe for matches a lot? I feel like guys are not really trying to take you out, just texting to death. Like theyre trying to figure out if you'll hook up soon or something.
 
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