***Online Dating Support Thread***
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lavaflow99
In search of the next vacation
what in the world?? so was he online only to look for a match for his friend?? that wouldn't be a man (the friend) a woman would want. ugh these men and these games....
C@ssandr@
formerly known as "keyawarren"
movingforward
Moving forward and onward
More so you get a pic and profile of one guy a day. And you either like or pass....if you like they send the guy a pic to see if he likes you back.
That's as far as I gotten. But I heard pretty good results.
Oh you only have one chance to like or pass the guy. You cant go back and change your mind later
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
Unfortunately, yes. Sad, isn't it?
CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
come on now. just ask to see his photos.I logged on to POF out of boredom awhile back, so now I'm getting messages again since they see I've been active recently.
Just got one from a guy whose profile sounded interest, message was decent/respectful but his pics are private.Uh, no dice.
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
I've gotten burned that way more than once. Had a good conversation, seemed to vibe well then get that pic and it's like
. Then it makes it awkward cuz if you fade to black afterwards, they know exactly why. Even if I don't think someone is attractive, I don't want to make it obvious and hurt their feelings.
CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
ask right off the bat.
C@ssandr@
formerly known as "keyawarren"
I've gotten burned that way more than once. Had a good conversation, seemed to vibe well then get that pic and it's like
That's why I like pof. Can't even message me if you don't have a pic.
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
I thought I had mine set up like that, but I guess not.
It also makes me wonder if they're trying to hide. You never know with these dudes.
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
I did. Will report back.
CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
Ok, he said he doesn't have a pic up because he's new to online dating and hasn't decided if he likes it yet. But he offered to email me some pics.
OAN, got a message from a dude whose profession is "being a Black man".Good day, sir.
I REFUSE with these negroes!
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
I know being Black is hard work but umm...it doesn't pay the bills. Please get yo life.
Dude probably working on his mixtape and hoping his rap career will blow up.
CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
this invitation is so direct and concise I feel compelled to accept it.
C@ssandr@
formerly known as "keyawarren"
this invitation is so direct and concise I feel compelled to accept it.
Word!
Do it and report back.
WhoIAm
Well-Known Member
Chile!!!
These dudes be trolling for puddy. I got an invite on a networking meet up. It was the strangest thing.
C@ssandr@
formerly known as "keyawarren"
POF.
CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
a lot of it depends on where you live tbh, but just choose whichever site where you get the most messages from the kind of guys youre interested in.
Dposh167
Well-Known Member
The volume on pof was better for me. But the quality on okc was better. I like pof website muuuch better though. They do a better job with filtering people who contact u. I don't want men over a certain age...or smokers...or no pic messaging me. POF keeps that out of ur inbox vs okc
CaraWalker
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yeah from what i can tell, a lot of guys are on ALL of the sites, so it might also help to choose the site whose interface you like best. ive seen the same guys from site to site.
are yall on one or both or all three? i am happy with what i get from the site i use so i dont feel the need to be on any of the other ones, but clearly some people do use more than one.
are yall on one or both or all three? i am happy with what i get from the site i use so i dont feel the need to be on any of the other ones, but clearly some people do use more than one.
CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
if i did want to date you this message made me not want to date you #cornball
