bluediamond0829
Well-Known Member
Well I have been on POF since December. Put myself on hidden a couple times. So on Saturday I met this one guy on there that lives in Columbia SC, he's 37, no kids, single, Military career, house, motorcycle, car, college educated with a masters degree. So the first time we spoke I just didn't have a good feeling and it was like we were going to bat and I just felt it wasn't going to work. So right at the end of the convo we were planning to meet and I told him well I would prefer for him to come down to ATL since he mentioned earlier that distance wasn't a issue. I just didn't really get a good feeling and I told him on the first convo some of the things that we were discussing shouldn't even be discussed---roles of men and women, ex's, etc. It was just too much.
So I went and ran some errands and he called back but this time the convo was totally better and more light hearted. He's planning to come down next weekend to visit and for us to meet.
Also another thing was kind of funny was that he deleted his profile and told me because he really liked me and wanted to focus on one another and getting to know one another and he asked if I could do the same. Then he also on the next day he starts calling me little names like babe, love, boo etc. I already mentioned it to him about the names because we don't know each other like that.
I just feel like on some things he is telling me everything I want to hear. He doesn't have any social media but had a POF page. He says his dad and mom have been married for 40 something years and that he's the youngest and just has a older sister. Also his father is a Deacon of a church.
He texts me at 5:30 in the morning for last couple mornings, calls consistently, texts throughout the day. Then he told me yesterday that he prayed and that he knows this will work. Its just too perfect.
It just seems a little too unbelievable.
So I went and ran some errands and he called back but this time the convo was totally better and more light hearted. He's planning to come down next weekend to visit and for us to meet.
Also another thing was kind of funny was that he deleted his profile and told me because he really liked me and wanted to focus on one another and getting to know one another and he asked if I could do the same. Then he also on the next day he starts calling me little names like babe, love, boo etc. I already mentioned it to him about the names because we don't know each other like that.
I just feel like on some things he is telling me everything I want to hear. He doesn't have any social media but had a POF page. He says his dad and mom have been married for 40 something years and that he's the youngest and just has a older sister. Also his father is a Deacon of a church.
He texts me at 5:30 in the morning for last couple mornings, calls consistently, texts throughout the day. Then he told me yesterday that he prayed and that he knows this will work. Its just too perfect.
It just seems a little too unbelievable.
I can't believe this happened to me!! That white boy probably got the shock of his life. My last text before that was about how much I love red velvet cake 
Sorry, girl!
!!! Don't worry about OK cupid dude, you will find someone else soon 
Just curious, was it an iPhone? My old boss used to always text me instead of her husband by accident...nothing dirty Thank God, I would have been traumatized.
