OMG I HAVE A SECRET ADMIRER!!!!!!!

ok... DH ..... said it's not him and was like "Oh you doing it big huh?"

I'm like... BOY stop.

-sigh -

Who is this mystery man? I'm perplexed.
Visions of dirty old men keep coming to mind.
 
LD I think its someone who you are deployed with whom has probably waited a decent amount of time post sep with DH to see if you might be interested in dating again....
 
^^ I'm not deployed now, but perhaps it is... now that you mention it I think I know who it MAY be... lol *hmmmm* We'll see!

I still think this is crazy. lol
 
Hey Ishhhh.....

The flowers are gorgeous.... I'm thinking, fuggedabout who it is...what will this secret admirer send you next!

Please keep us posted.
 
awww very pretty and what a lovely gesture.. I'm excited too.. shoot who is it?! yes DEF keep us posted cause WE wanna know!!!! :yep:
 
MissMeWithThatIsh said:
Y'all are good. Dh would send something like:

"I goooot aaaaa surpriseee for you... you'll be happy soooooooooon" ... all sing-songy... and then I'd be like "What is it?"

"Iiiiiii'm noooot teeeeellllllllin' yoooooooooooooooou" :grin:

And then it would come and his name would be on it... and his messages are lovey-dovey.... "Iiiiii toooollld uuuuu iiiiii goooot uuuuu someeeethin'"
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That is me when I was a kid. My brother and sister had to stop telling me the gifts for our mom because I couldn't hold water neither. I would start all sing-songy, "I know what your present is". She never ask what and I would end up telling her anyway.
 
I like the new hair color! Hope everything works out with you and the DH!

Can I have your flowers? They are so pretty.
 
Phynestone, I have to tell you how much that dog in your sig pic makes me laugh!:lachen::lachen: He looks so toasted!:lachen:
 
your secret admirer had better reveal himself! he can't just send you flowers and then -nothing- at all!! if that's it then that's almost creepy. someone out there knows you, is watching, and you know that they have more than friendly feelings towards you but they aren't telling. it could be anyone. they know where you work! they better come forward!! oh the suspense!!
 
maybe its a guy that's been stalking you, sleeping outside your window, collecting and saving your disposed empty containers of deep conditioner and shed hair to sniff them every hour and before bedtime... :look:










jk, but you never know :lachen:
 
I found out who it was....


Ladies... it WAS DH. Y'all were right.

He knows I would have never expected it, but he had written this "romantic/erotic" story... and I was supposed to get the flowers, the same day as the story.

I was like "WTH is all this about?"

He basically said, "I messed up, I know I did, but I been here, I ain't going nowhere and I ain't letting you go that easy...."

Well damn... LOL

At least we know there's no panty-sniffing hair fetish having man creeping around me!
 
I'm glad it was dh:yep:. He's fighting to get you back. I hope things work out (if that's what you want).
 
Aww that's so sweet :love:. If he didn't F* up to bad, please give him a second chance :drunk:

MissMeWithThatIsh said:
I found out who it was....


Ladies... it WAS DH. Y'all were right.

He knows I would have never expected it, but he had written this "romantic/erotic" story... and I was supposed to get the flowers, the same day as the story.

I was like "WTH is all this about?"

He basically said, "I messed up, I know I did, but I been here, I ain't going nowhere and I ain't letting you go that easy...."

Well damn... LOL

At least we know there's no panty-sniffing hair fetish having man creeping around me!
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Overall, I'm leaving it up to God. Period. I've done everything in my power to avoid this. And it's not that what he did is extremely terrible - definitely not infidelity or stealing or abuse, but it's something that should have been worked out well before we married. We married in a crunch before his last deployment and he's really sweet but he procrastinates on handling problems until it's TOO late.

I can't call it, but we've both decided to just be. I refuse to think about "us" ... his mom is sick and our friend's brother was just killed in that rocket attack in Afghanistan last week. I just tell him that God forbid anything happens to him, he'll know I loved him regardless. I just have to put "ME" before "WE" since "HE" can't straighten his issue out.

All love though.
 
I like your post. You have to do what's best for you. Obviously we don't know the issues but you know what you can and cannot live with. I truly wish you BOTH the best and I believe God doesn't make any mistakes (as long as WE take our grubby little hands outta situations).
 
I think that is so romantic.:love: In every marriage there is a bit of angst and definitely some compromise. You both are the ones that have to deal with it. Seems like he is trying. I'm wishing you both the best.
 
Lol, I knew it was your DH when you first posted. That is so sweet of him. Hopefully you guys will come to some agreement with your problems.
 
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