OMG!!! Borderline child/hair abuse!!!

Wow, just unbelievable! She was waayyyy to rough with that pretty little girl. I wonder why the so-called mom was sitting and the child was standing anyway?
 
They are both disgusting. The daughter is big enough to know right from wrong too. To it there filming that and laughing? The girl even tried to cover her face. Laughing at her face turning red? Listening to her screaming in PAIN?????

I do think jealousy plays a role. Do you see the evil smirks the mother does at times? HOW SHE LOOKS LIKE SHE IS ENJOYING IT? How can you be so mean to a baby? Your own baby? :nono:

The way they are treating her... YOU KNOW it's not only like this during hair doing time.

Making the other baby jump on that crying little girl??? Morons!!!! They are scarring BOTH the children.

And the other vids :nono: The big daughter doesn't have half a brain.

I wonder whose decision it was to post the vids. Idiots!

I rarely say I hate people, but anyone who would do such a thing to a DEFENSELESS child just deserves whatever they have coming to them.

Naaaah. This really pissses me off.

 
I think you guys went too far with reporting her to DPS. The behavior in the video was bad, but I wouldn't try to break up a family over it, especially since they live in Michigan. Michigan has one of the worst foster care systems. That child would probably be better off with her family.
 
Yes that is true but they dont' take the child away first shot there is an investigation and monitoring Anger management and parenting classes. Yes Michigan has one of THE worst Foster Care systems but hopefully that will be a wake up call for the parent to let it be known that you cannot do that and please don't be so stupid to post it.

It is just a bad as the man spinning his 9 month old baby in the room or the other teenager that got reported for jumping on the bed and making the little baby fly across the room. That is abuse also.


I think you guys went too far with reporting her to DPS. The behavior in the video was bad, but I wouldn't try to break up a family over it, especially since they live in Michigan. Michigan has one of the worst foster care systems. That child would probably be better off with her family.
 
I think you guys went too far with reporting her to DPS. The behavior in the video was bad, but I wouldn't try to break up a family over it, especially since they live in Michigan. Michigan has one of the worst foster care systems. That child would probably be better off with her family.

So you would sit there and let those people treat her like that?!? :nono:


There is no chance of her growing up a normal, happy child with a healthy self esteem with those people.

At least somewhere else, she may have a chance.

Do you understand that the bigger picture is the mental and emotional abuse? Not only the physical. How do you think the child will come out after 18 years of that?


It's NOT okay by any stretch of the imagination on any level.

 
It's a sad situation. Either way the poor child is going to be scarred. It's traumatic to have to deal with abuse, but it is also traumatic to be taken away from one's family. My mom often times treated me harshly without reason, and I was upset for a great deal of my life. But my mom, later in life, apologized to me. I even witnessed her break down and cry and and say she didn't want to be that way. Come to find out she was abused for a great deal of her life by members of her family she thought she could trust; that she should have been able to trust. Even though my mom was cruel to me a lot of times, she did her best to keep me safe, fed, and protected from the outside world. And now that I'm older I can see that she loved me, but she didn't know how to express that love. How can a person that was never loved in their life express love the correct and proper way? Long story short, I feel deep pity for the child and what she's going through, but I can't help but wonder about the mother. The whole family, in my opinion, needs guidance and counseling.
 
I think you guys went too far with reporting her to DPS. The behavior in the video was bad, but I wouldn't try to break up a family over it, especially since they live in Michigan. Michigan has one of the worst foster care systems. That child would probably be better off with her family.


I personally don't think the child will be taken away, I just hope that SOMETHING is done so that this little one does not have to experience this ever again. Hopefully if the mother sees that this vid is put on blast she will see that what she is doing is wrong.
 
It just isn't about the abuse. It's about how sucky the damn Michigan Foster Care system is. There are major problems with it. If this was hardcore abuse, then yes, I would report it. But I sure as hell wouldn't send a child to DHC in this state for the behavior I saw in this video. Hell no. The system here is racist and the foster care parents are about as bad as the parents these children are taken from. If it was in another state, I probably wouldn't feel as strongly about this. But hell no, I do not want to see this child in a Michigan foster care.


So you would sit there and let those people treat her like that?!? :nono:


There is no chance of her growing up a normal, happy child with a healthy self esteem with those people.

At least somewhere else, she may have a chance.

Do you understand that the bigger picture is the mental and emotional abuse? Not only the physical. How do you think the child will come out after 18 years of that?


It's NOT okay by any stretch of the imagination on any level.

 
That is my hope also. I would rather see this being a learning experience for the family.

I personally don't think the child will be taken away, I just hope that SOMETHING is done so that this little one does not have to experience this ever again. Hopefully if the mother sees that this vid is put on blast she will see that what she is doing is wrong.
 
WTH?! I never heard about that.

Yes that is true but they dont' take the child away first shot there is an investigation and monitoring Anger management and parenting classes. Yes Michigan has one of THE worst Foster Care systems but hopefully that will be a wake up call for the parent to let it be known that you cannot do that and please don't be so stupid to post it.

It is just a bad as the man spinning his 9 month old baby in the room or the other teenager that got reported for jumping on the bed and making the little baby fly across the room. That is abuse also.
 
Just listening to that woman say "You ain't got no *bleep* Daddy now shut the *bleep* up" :nono: Is this what our young girls are going through? The baby is crying out for her Daddy, and the "mother" just shuts her down.

A little girl should not have to scream out "I hate you" that many times :nono:
 
I think you guys went too far with reporting her to DPS. The behavior in the video was bad, but I wouldn't try to break up a family over it, especially since they live in Michigan. Michigan has one of the worst foster care systems. That child would probably be better off with her family.

Better safe than sorry don't ya think! If, and thats a IF, they ever find her what harm would it do it to check on the child (you never know what happens behind closed doors). If the CPS feel she is a fit mother then no harm done (and i bet you she would never do that again to her child). Who's says we are breaking up a happy home? If she is a bad mother then they will do what they need to do (they may even let the grandmother/aunt/family memeber who may be more fit take the child for awhile if there is something wrong).

The fact you find it "bad" but not bad enought to even check on the kid is kinda distrubing (in my eyes). If I was a kid i would love that total strangers in this cold hearted world would give a flicker of kindness to make sure that i was okay. Thats whats wrong with the world now. People stop caring!

And i know a bunch of foster children and foster parents/adopted parents in the state of Michigan who are fine and doign well.
 
Just listening to that woman say "You ain't got no *bleep* Daddy now shut the *bleep* up" :nono: Is this what our young girls are going through? The baby is crying out for her Daddy, and the "mother" just shuts her down.

A little girl should not have to scream out "I hate you" that many times :nono:
Im not sure that is the mother. Have we established that?
 
Im not sure that is the mother. Have we established that?


I have no idea. Hopefully that isn't the mother, which would make the situation even worse. Imagine somebody else doing that to your little girl? Oh lawd, I don't even wanna think about how many bricks I'd have going upside her head.
 
It just isn't about the abuse. It's about how sucky the damn Michigan Foster Care system is. There are major problems with it. If this was hardcore abuse, then yes, I would report it. But I sure as hell wouldn't send a child to DHC in this state for the behavior I saw in this video. Hell no. The system here is racist and the foster care parents are about as bad as the parents these children are taken from. If it was in another state, I probably wouldn't feel as strongly about this. But hell no, I do not want to see this child in a Michigan foster care.

How do you know what is going on in that house?

Maybe there is hardcore abuse.

If they do this to the girl and feel it's okay to post it on youtube... that girl's life is probably a living hell.

Who says it stops at hair combing? Why weren't the other children horrified? It's normal for them. They ganged up on her like she is the punching bag of the family. Even the little one joined in for "the fun"

SOMETHING should be done. I cannot just turn the other way and not even attempt to help.

What does it take? That child was screaming out for help herself. You need to see someone being killed before you do something?

What if it was you? You would want people to just look the other way?

At least give her a chance. You don't know what's going to happen to her... maybe her father or another family member will get her. If she stays where she is, she doesn't have a chance.
 
Im not sure that is the mother. Have we established that?


even the more reason to report! If she is not the mother ,she (the mother) should know about it. I would want to know if i left my child in someones care and they hurt them like that. and i am sure any sane person would want to know too.
 
We'll just have to agree to disagree. I have personal experience with Michigan foster care, so nothing is really going to change my mind about this.

How do you know what is going on in that house?

Maybe there is hardcore abuse.

If they do this to the girl and feel it's okay to post it on youtube... that girl's life is probably a living hell.

Who says it stops at hair combing? Why weren't the other children horrified? It's normal for them. They ganged up on her like she is the punching bag of the family. Even the little one joined in for "the fun"

SOMETHING should be done. I cannot just turn the other way and not even attempt to help.

What does it take? That child was screaming out for help herself. You need to see someone being killed before you do something?

What if it was you? You would want people to just look the other way?

At least give her a chance. You don't know what's going to happen to her... maybe her father or another family member will get her. If she stays where she is, she doesn't have a chance.
 
It just isn't about the abuse. It's about how sucky the damn Michigan Foster Care system is. There are major problems with it. If this was hardcore abuse, then yes, I would report it. But I sure as hell wouldn't send a child to DHC in this state for the behavior I saw in this video. Hell no. The system here is racist and the foster care parents are about as bad as the parents these children are taken from. If it was in another state, I probably wouldn't feel as strongly about this. But hell no, I do not want to see this child in a Michigan foster care.

There's no doubt in my mind that there's some hardcore abuse in that household. If all of this is going on when the mom's combing hair, than there's no telling what really goes on when the kids piss her off and there's no camera around to catch it.
 
The video is VERY disturbing... I think whoever this lady is needs some educating, because the fact that she put it on u tube says she doesnt even realize its wrong.
 
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