ShiShiPooPoo
Well-Known Member
Some of you remember Hopeful's thread about covering and me mentioning some major problems with my DH and irresponsibility, selfishness, etc. well, it has gotten worse. Last February, he was taking our DD to the doc and smashed into someone. He was issued 3 tickets, one was no proof of insurance, which we DO have. He never places the cards in the car like I tell him too. Anyway, he had court dates which he missed then told half truths about who told him what, when, whatever. Now, he either pays 1100 or turn himself in and go to court the next day.
Y'all, I don't come from this. My family is very upstanding and I as well in the community. His family are wonderful people who don't understand this either. Emotionally I'm done. Then he sulks around so you can feel bad for him, forgive him, and start the cycle over again. MY PLAN is getting things in order for a divorce. I'm through with this. We have two beautiful children who will be wondering why Daddy isn't home. I'm over his Kang ***.
Any thoughts? I just needed to let it out to real women. I'm afraid I'm co-dependent after this bull****.
Y'all, I don't come from this. My family is very upstanding and I as well in the community. His family are wonderful people who don't understand this either. Emotionally I'm done. Then he sulks around so you can feel bad for him, forgive him, and start the cycle over again. MY PLAN is getting things in order for a divorce. I'm through with this. We have two beautiful children who will be wondering why Daddy isn't home. I'm over his Kang ***.
Any thoughts? I just needed to let it out to real women. I'm afraid I'm co-dependent after this bull****.