SingBrina
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Stay what way, transitioning?
Yes, I think I will try a little longer, just need a better moisturizer and detangler when I am about to shampoo my hair from a wet bun.
Stay what way, transitioning?
I really need some new styles!! I have finally gotten tired of the bun...
She may be talking about chopping. She said she's 10-12 months post or more but she hasnt been keeping track.
SINGBRINA GET IN HERE AND CLARIFY!
^^^you better fight that relaxer feeling woman!
Yeah I will just focus on my crown when wet bunning, I really liked the wet bun. I just need to focus on that and comb better when I am done.... hmmm, I shall fight this feeling another month, lol, or after this next try
Its now 5 months 1 day post for me. I'm taking my braids out this weekend because I'm tired of them and like co washing my hair and letting water hit it everyday... I will continue to transition without BC. In addition I am doing the HYH challange til dec 10! wish me luck!
I really miss touching my NG I think I may take this sew-in down sooner than planned. Anywho I'll be 13 months in less than a week I hope I can make it the 5 months after that ( I thought about BCing everyday this week)
^^ It's just an itch that I can ignore. My natural hair is not long enough I need at least a decent size bun before I chop.
How long is your NG now?
I just hit the 13 month mark a couple of days ago and my hair is acting up lately. The relaxed hair seems to be tangling around itself and I'm seeing some broken hairs and shedding I'm trying to re-group and figure out what I can do to stop the breakage first and foremost. I don't thing my protein balance is off since I use a leave-in w/ mild protein at least once a week and I use a moisturizing leave-in any other time; I also DC once a week with a mixture of Aussie Moist and Aussie 3 min. miracle mixed w/ olive oil. I do try to moisturize and seal nightly. I stopped shampooing about 6 weeks ago and have been alternating between ayurvedic powder rinses and cowashes. I clarify once a month with baking soda mixed with conditioner.
At this point I really don't know what to do. I have no desire to chop but if I can't get the breakage under control, I may have to. I was planning on transitioning at least until November. I am not doing any type of fake hair for the summer because it's seriously too hot for that.
Can anyone help a sista out????
I'm still transitioning also, I'm at Month 13. I think my hair is BCing itself but I'm going to keep on and make sure that I up my moisturizing and DCing.
I remember when this happened. Just when you think you have transitioning under control. Nope.
So here is what I did,
1. always do everything is sections and make sure your hair is streched to avoid demarcation tangles. This is where all my tangles are now. Not the natural hair or the relaxed hair but where they meet, I do everything is sections
2. if you get tried of caring for your tangly hair blow dry it may be a little but of heat but it will save you a few days of fustration. Remember you do always have to flat iron.
3. do a deep moisture treatment, my hair always behaves better after a DC on dry hair with PM detangler, honey, aloe vera, what germ oil, and heat
4. ceramides, I didn't discover this till about month 14 and it saved the breakage factor. I mix what germ oil with whatever I'm sealing with and have seen a big difference in the breakage. I hear hot six oil is good but I have never used it.
5. Also if you aren't doing this wash in braids. I say braids not sections. You need to keep your hair streched and tangle free. I braid my hair pre wash, wet the braid then unravel. shampoo - section - rinse - condition - rebraid.
I hope some thing I wrote helps.
OMG! If ya'll are having a hard time detangling, try Aubrey Organics Honeysuckle Rose. That stuff is the BOMBDIGGITY! It detangled my hair like nooooo other. Ya'll remember I used to complain about hour long detangling sessions. 10 minutes ya'll! TEN MINUTES! It was so good I didn't even rinse it out lol I hope it works well as a leave in! This is definitely a staple though.