naturalgyrl5199
Well-Known Member
still reading,but I have a question. so if you're the bride and you request a certain style for the bridesmaids that makes you a bridezilla?
*reading on*
Nope.....
But you should be reasonable because these are supposed to be your friends...As far as OP...I think her friend simply doesn't know any better (regarding the hair).....
Friends don't make friends uncomfortable or do something they are against. As a bride I went out my way to make sure my bridesmaids are comfortable. For instance they had drastically different body types....so it would be unfair IMO to make the heavier bride wear something that would make one bride look sexy, but make her look foolish for the sake of 100% uniformity...that takes away from the day, and is distracting. It was my desire for all my brides to look beautiful as they could be, with the hair style, shoes, and dress style that complimented their bodies/face/skin, etc the best...cause they're representing me!
At the wedding I was in, one bride who was heavier was made to wear very very strappy heels the bride picked out and fussed about....That Bridesmaid purchased the shoes (60.00 loss at the end of the day)....(that reminds me...all my brides were able to wear their dresses and shoes again at another function cause they looked GOOD!) graciously but still brought another pair of shoes she could actually walk in. Sure they were a slightly different shade of gold, but the dress was long so you had to be looking hard to notice it...but she walked in those shoes with her head held high...cause the poor girl was just limping in the other ones...so the important thing is that reasonability and fairness rules the day.....Its about you as the bride..of course....but, trust and believe people will still talk about how so and so bride had her bridesmaids out there looking a mess....Just like they'll talk about how late you are and how nasty or cold the food was......(shrug)