angelc
Active Member
Here’s the story, my husband has decided to be a ‘mentor’ of sorts for one of my son’s friends. The boy comes from a single parent home has a lot of responsibility taking care of his little brother while his mom works. Since my son is involved in sports, my husband thought it would be a good idea to have his friend join also. The only problem was that the mom could not afford to pay the fee. We talked it over and decided that we would help out and pay the fee for his friend to join. When it came down to it we also ended up paying for the baseball shoes and baseball pants for the boy too.
I did not have a problem with this because I realize the importance of community and would rather see the boys play sports than be in the streets.
Well, the mom decided that she wanted to attend the game and she and the little brother rode with me to the field. After the game it was almost 8pm and a school night so DH decides to buy pizza. He allows all of the boys to ride with him and the mom and I head home. She needs to get ready for work the next day so I tell her that we will bring the boys home when they are finished eating.
All the kids, DH, myself are at the table and we are recapping the game’s highlights… the mom (who lives in the next complex) comes over while we’re eating. While there she grabs a slice of pizza and sits down at the table. Mind you by this time is is nearing 9pm and I also have to get things ready for the next day. I excuse myself from the table and go upstairs to throw in a load of laundry and to iron my clothes.
When I come back downstairs about 10 min later my husband and the boy’s mom are having a drink. W T Heck???
I am a bit annoyed because in my mind this has turned into something a little more than dinner.
I look at my husband like ‘what’s going on here?’ erplexed and he looks back at me clueless…
I'm thinking why in the heck is he down here drinking when he has to go back to work this evening...
Ladies, tell me, was I wrong to be angry? Maybe it was my fault for leaving the room…
I am just a bit ticked off because I feel like when you’re drinking with someone it becomes something more personal….I don’t know, maybe I’m way off base here…
I did not have a problem with this because I realize the importance of community and would rather see the boys play sports than be in the streets.
Well, the mom decided that she wanted to attend the game and she and the little brother rode with me to the field. After the game it was almost 8pm and a school night so DH decides to buy pizza. He allows all of the boys to ride with him and the mom and I head home. She needs to get ready for work the next day so I tell her that we will bring the boys home when they are finished eating.
All the kids, DH, myself are at the table and we are recapping the game’s highlights… the mom (who lives in the next complex) comes over while we’re eating. While there she grabs a slice of pizza and sits down at the table. Mind you by this time is is nearing 9pm and I also have to get things ready for the next day. I excuse myself from the table and go upstairs to throw in a load of laundry and to iron my clothes.
When I come back downstairs about 10 min later my husband and the boy’s mom are having a drink. W T Heck???
I am a bit annoyed because in my mind this has turned into something a little more than dinner.
I look at my husband like ‘what’s going on here?’ erplexed and he looks back at me clueless…
I'm thinking why in the heck is he down here drinking when he has to go back to work this evening...
Ladies, tell me, was I wrong to be angry? Maybe it was my fault for leaving the room…
I am just a bit ticked off because I feel like when you’re drinking with someone it becomes something more personal….I don’t know, maybe I’m way off base here…