yokoyokogirl
New Member
Been dating this new guy for a while now and I'm getting into him. He's been pretty up front with everything thus far--and things are matching up honestly.
But recently he told me that he got married to his ex-gf in college and well, never divorced. They married in the States, simple court marriage and he did admit, that at the time it was an honest marriage in his eyes. But she drifted apart after a while and eventually said she just did it cause she "wanted cheaper health insurance and tuition"--fast forward 5 years and he's back in Japan, but still legally married in the States. (FYI: The ex-gf remarried someone here shortly after they broke up.And you have to tell your country u are married elsewhere, they don't research those things.)
Just curious to what this all means and what you ladies think about this...
But recently he told me that he got married to his ex-gf in college and well, never divorced. They married in the States, simple court marriage and he did admit, that at the time it was an honest marriage in his eyes. But she drifted apart after a while and eventually said she just did it cause she "wanted cheaper health insurance and tuition"--fast forward 5 years and he's back in Japan, but still legally married in the States. (FYI: The ex-gf remarried someone here shortly after they broke up.And you have to tell your country u are married elsewhere, they don't research those things.)
Just curious to what this all means and what you ladies think about this...