~~HoneyComb~~
Well-Known Member
I agree with this. I have many 20+ year marriages in my family (grand parents, parents, aunts, uncles, etc) and in most of them I do not know if infidelity has taken place or not. There are some people who believe in keeping their marital business within the marriage. Me and DH are like this, we don't talk to anyone about our marriage but each other. I know on my part I will never cheat and I believe and pray my DH will be faithful to me.
Also, I don't believe a couple being mushy and kissey, kissey is good evidence that infidelity has never taken place. Oh and I do believe its possible to be faithful forever.
I'm in agreement with you here.
A lot of folks that have been married for decades don't necessarily air their dirty laundry, esp. those that have been married for 30+ years, because during those times folks kept things to themselves and didn't do a lot of talking about what went on behind closed doors like we see now.
Also, I've know couples that were kissy, huggy, feely in public be the ones that would divorce or have infidelity within the marriage, and people are wondering "How could such a loving couple end up in divorce". Extreme public displays of affection does not mean "cheating" is not going on somewhere. And it doesn't mean that the couple is happy together. It could just be an act.