that depends...one because most people gauge another person's expression of love based on their own definitions and acts of love, or either the "role" book of what somebody is supposed to do when they love you... and depending on what they do or dont do is how the other determines what the other is giving....
i do know alot of people prefer to be with somebody who loves them "more" because they think if they are the person in the position of loving more then they will be more vulnerable, because alot of relationships do have that extreme of the giver and the taker vs balanced out .... and the givers seem to always get "took" or "depleted" while the takers are always "getting" more and more ...
yet always feel empty..thats another post however
can too people love each other deeply and be into each other...
yes no doubt...will it be equally....no because how somebody expresses their deep affection may not be the way another does, and if one is looking for something equal or the same they will be disappointed in life, or if they disregard the way one shows love because its not the way they want it they will miss it anyways....it can be close to the same way or very different ways
even twins who share the same dna express and use the dna differently
we all have the same source of love within us..nobody expresses it the exact same way as anybody else and people's awareness of love within also makes a big difference in how it comes out....
a person can love another as much as they love themselves.....people's capabilities of loving are at all different levels which means as much as one person can give to somebody may not be nearly "enough" to another who is wanting it, while another's capabilities are so high they confuse people with it
