It's my 9 month anniversary today! In 3 more months I'll be hitting my one year mark. I can't believe it. I'm still loving my hair. I haven't decided how I'm going to style it today. I might just keep rocking the same style I've been wearing all week, since Sunday, I think.
I retightened DS 2's locks last Monday, if I recall correctly. He was NOT happy with me, ya'll.
But we got through it. At first glance it always seems like his hair looks the same, but I can see the transformation happening. Especially when I looked at some pictures of where he started from and what his hair looks like now.
He will hit 4 months this Saturday.
DS 1's locks look sooooo good now!!! I have made several observations about his hair during this process. I have noticed that initially when I was spraying his hair with my Infusium mix and then using a wet washcloth to rub his hair, it was taking a longer time for his coils to form. I should have expected as much, since Infusium is basically not only a leave-in conditioner but a detangler. So I stopped using that once I realized that all my work was being undone every day that we worked on his coils.
Then I switched to the rosewater spray, but I was spraying his roots and the ends of his hair and then using a wet washcloth to rub his hair. This method was giving me mixed results. It's like some of the coils in the back were forming super tight and then in other places of his head they were taking their time to form, and some of them were reverting. So I had to adjust what I was doing again.
I still continued using the rosewater spray, but I stopped spraying the roots so much and focused more on spraying the ends of his hair and then instead of wetting the washcloth under the faucet, I would spray rosewater on the washcloth and then put the washcloth in his hair and rub in the direction I wanted his locks to form, keeping the same direction throughout. (clockwise) That method netted me the best results and has his hair looking amazing now.
Even his Early Interventionist commented on it when he had his session with her last Thursday and said his hair is looking super defined now and way different than the last time she had seen him. It looks even better in natural light, (read: outside) so as soon as I can, I will get some pics of him in that type of setting and post.
I try to work on it every day, and sometimes I miss a day and that's fine. I just resume the next day. I always do it before he goes to school each day to refresh his hair and reshape his hair because it gets flat on the sides that he sleeps on and I try to get the lint out from sleeping on his blankets. I need to go ahead and find him a skull cap or something to wear at night to prevent that.
This week I also started working on it at night after his bath for a few minutes while we're waiting for the water to drain out of the tub. He will be at one month next Tuesday, already. I am really glad I did this and wish I made the connection to start his locks this way a lot sooner. It would have saved me a lot of frustration, I tell you that!
I tell him everyday his hair looks so cool....especially when he gets fidgety and starts screaming or moving his head a lot when I'm rubbing it with the washcloth. I think he's very sensitive on the left side of his head because every time I get to that section he moves his head a lot more and starts avoiding/eloping.
Me telling him his hair looks cool and asking him if he wants to see it usually redirects him well. So I will take a quick break and show him what his hair looks like. But sometimes he says no, he doesn't want to see it and then we just proceed.
It legit looks like I took my time and parted his hair in these super neat parts and made super tiny coils, but nope....it's all in the washcloth and the hands. I also made sure to apply more pressure while I was rubbing once I started to feel little sections of hair start to clump together to form a coil and focused on doing that, instead of just loosely rubbing his hair with the washcloth.
I'm still not sure how I am going to maintain his locks as his hair grows out. I would take a couple of the coils and twist them between my fingers just to help the process along and also to see how he tolerated that, and he moved his head and tried to cover my hand every time.
Interlocking might be way out of the question, unless I find a way to do it when he is sleeping. I also thought about trying to interlock some of them together to combine them, but I may just leave it to see how they will form. I just didn't want to be having to retighten or retwist 200+ locks on his little head.
I haven't counted them yet, but it looks like he has close to that many.
I do really want to interlock the base of all of them for extra security, once I am content with the way they have formed. But I won't do that yet. Some of them are too short for me to do that, even with my smallest yarn needle, so I'm going to wait. Hopefully he will let me do that but I know how he is set up so.....it might be a no.
I also haven't really washed his hair yet, but his hair is ok.