I used the baking soda mix so long ago, but I think I made it watery to paste like and it was fine.
I've used conditioner before washing and it was fine, but the conditioning again killed it for me. That's a no. And I used regular poo after just like
@uofmpanther stated. Something simple and clear.
I DC on fully wet hair because it allows me to use less product. I've tried dc on dry hair and drying my hair a bit after I wash and it causes me to use more product and for the latter, I just had dry hair. Conditioner is 70-80% water anyway, so your just putting water right back in. That water on your hair is not going to cause a setback, but if what you are doing works for you, continue to do it.
And you have to prepared that when you apply conditioner, your cuticles will reclose. Happens to me all the time.