Guitarhero
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This is sort of a spin-off of two separate threads and a private conversation regarding refraining from sex before marriage, a fiasco relationship situation turned very sour and the ability to bare-back in marriage:
The older I personally get, the more I see all types of infidelity around me - infidelity in marriage, infidelity of friends, infidelity against self i.e. lack of respect and self-esteem and even against your higher power. So I ask those who are married, just how sure are you that your spouse will not cheat? Do you have something that is your guarantee that you are now safe and will be safe throughout the marriage?
For those who are engaged or dating towards marriage or just plain single, how sure will you be that infidelity will not happen to you and are you prepared to go with the newer health recommendations of condom usage and frequent std/sti checks in marriage? I'm afraid that the realities in society are sobering. In other words, especially for the religious or just those who made a pact to preserve themselves for marriage, you can still end up jacked up. What say you?
The older I personally get, the more I see all types of infidelity around me - infidelity in marriage, infidelity of friends, infidelity against self i.e. lack of respect and self-esteem and even against your higher power. So I ask those who are married, just how sure are you that your spouse will not cheat? Do you have something that is your guarantee that you are now safe and will be safe throughout the marriage?
For those who are engaged or dating towards marriage or just plain single, how sure will you be that infidelity will not happen to you and are you prepared to go with the newer health recommendations of condom usage and frequent std/sti checks in marriage? I'm afraid that the realities in society are sobering. In other words, especially for the religious or just those who made a pact to preserve themselves for marriage, you can still end up jacked up. What say you?
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