and why they marry them and now I feel slightly depressed. I've been told over and over again by everyone that I'm too nice and I never understood what they meant UNTIL NOW.
When guys told me that I was too nice for them I'll be like WTF do you mean and no one would ever explain so I kept repeating the same mistakes over and over. I didn't even know I was chasing their dumb butts. Jeez! You would think someone would have hipped a sista' like 20 years ago! And I never thought I was acting desparate or something either. I just thought I was being nice.
Reading these books was like someone telling me my whole relational history. Thank you white woman for explaining all this and giving me something to work with.
Now I'm re-reading and taking notes so I don't do the same dumb **** again.
BOY DO I FEEL DUMB RIGHT NOW!
When guys told me that I was too nice for them I'll be like WTF do you mean and no one would ever explain so I kept repeating the same mistakes over and over. I didn't even know I was chasing their dumb butts. Jeez! You would think someone would have hipped a sista' like 20 years ago! And I never thought I was acting desparate or something either. I just thought I was being nice.
Reading these books was like someone telling me my whole relational history. Thank you white woman for explaining all this and giving me something to work with.
Now I'm re-reading and taking notes so I don't do the same dumb **** again.
BOY DO I FEEL DUMB RIGHT NOW!