I guess I can join the club!!
I'm 26 going on 27, and I've NEVER had a serious bf. I've had guy "friends", guys I was interested in, and guys I talked to over the phone and hung out with, but never a serious relationship.
I'm trying to open up a bit more also. Not that I'm aloof by nature, but more so opening up to guys...even the ones I'm not that interested in at first. Some guys have been interested in me, but they just haven't been my type. I'm not picky, but I definitely don't want to settle either. I think this year I'm just going to work on being a little more open and at leaset give some of these guys a chance at a friendship. In the past, if I wasn't 100% attracted to a guy, I wouldn't really give him the time of day!
No date, no loooong phone conversations, no "friendship"...NOTHING! I figured...what was the point?? If I know someone likes me, but he looks like a truck ran over his face, I'm sorry....
Add on top of that, some guys had the personality of wood....
But now days, I'm getting better. I'm giving more guys a chance even if I'm not immediately attracted to their looks or personality. I'm at least giving them a chance.
If I had a dime for everyone who asks me: "do you have a boyfriend?" "I would think someone as pretty as you would have a bf by now", "are you married?" "*gasp in horror* You're not married?!??"
(like it's some sin or something) I'd be RICH!
Honestly, I don't think there's anything wrong with not being married or not having a boyfriend at age 30. Some people find their true loves at different times in life. No biggie.
But now if someone is 50 and has NEVER been in a romantic relationship, then I would think that was kind of odd....
UNLESS of course, it was by choice.