SoopremeBeing
Well-Known Member
I'd like to open up a free debate. Any ladies here currently involved/formerly involved with men were are/were very popular in the social environment i.e. former college athletes?
The guy in question, my SO, he is a former college athlete and also prior military. It's been a number of years since his time in college and the military. But in this day and age, there's Facebook, so he's gotten back in touch with old friends, including females. And I use the term female loosely.
These old female friends of his have absolutely no shame. Throwing themselves at him, knowing he's in a relationship with me, asking to hang out and all that nonsense. BIRDS, for lack of a better word. I mentioned in another thread that dating him is like dating a celebrity, but not getting any of the benefits from it. All I seem to be doing is trying to keep the groupies at bay.
I don't know, I've never dated anyone with his social status before, and the last time I had to deal with any women coming for any boyfriend I've had was high school. I like him a lot, but I can't really deal with these old college and military friends of his, popping up out of nowhere, tryna get some after all these years. I'm not the type to chase away groupies, or confront the other woman, and all that nonsense. I'd rather just leave, and find a guy that doesn't have groupies.
Am I being too sensitive or what? Is this just something I'm going to have to deal with and accept because of who he is? It's been over 10+ years since his college days, and like 7 for the military.....and some of these women are married with kids of their own...oy.
The guy in question, my SO, he is a former college athlete and also prior military. It's been a number of years since his time in college and the military. But in this day and age, there's Facebook, so he's gotten back in touch with old friends, including females. And I use the term female loosely.
These old female friends of his have absolutely no shame. Throwing themselves at him, knowing he's in a relationship with me, asking to hang out and all that nonsense. BIRDS, for lack of a better word. I mentioned in another thread that dating him is like dating a celebrity, but not getting any of the benefits from it. All I seem to be doing is trying to keep the groupies at bay.
I don't know, I've never dated anyone with his social status before, and the last time I had to deal with any women coming for any boyfriend I've had was high school. I like him a lot, but I can't really deal with these old college and military friends of his, popping up out of nowhere, tryna get some after all these years. I'm not the type to chase away groupies, or confront the other woman, and all that nonsense. I'd rather just leave, and find a guy that doesn't have groupies.
Am I being too sensitive or what? Is this just something I'm going to have to deal with and accept because of who he is? It's been over 10+ years since his college days, and like 7 for the military.....and some of these women are married with kids of their own...oy.