I want to know if there is a way i can make my hair heavier? It is too light. I have thick 4a-4b hair but is doesnt really "hang".. Even when i straighten it, its too light and "airy"... if that makes sense.
I want hair that hangs and rocks back forths when turning my head. I want hair with some a backbone!
I met a girl that when u lift her hair.. u can feel the weight, and when u let it go, it drops back down hard.
So basically there a way I can condition my hair to become "heavier"?
I understand your question, OP and I had the same issue. Unfortunately the only thing that worked for me was
time and
health of my hair. I know that's not what you wanna hear
erplexed But the healthier it got, the more heft it had. I don't know how or why. But no amount of conditioner, oil, or moisturizer did that. Reason is (for me) when I apply too much product to my hair, it ends up weighing it down. So it has the heaviness, but doesn't move!!
When it got healthier, it didn't matter how short it was. It had body, swing, and volume. The better the internal condition of my hair (proper balance between protein and moisture) the better it grew out of my head. The external stuff (conditioner, oils, etc.) gives temporary pleasure
Find the right products that work for you (less is more!) eat right, drink 64 oz. of water a day, get exercise, get sleep, take your multivitamin and one oil and be more concerned with the internal health of your body and your hair will grow out of your scalp at its optimal level of strength. The healthier it grows out, the less external techniques you will have to do to achieve that swing. Also, you may opt to cut your hair every so often. I maintained the same length for about two years. This is basically to get rid of the damaged hair and ends....got rid of the old and welcomed the healthy new!
When my hair was damaged, I had to OD on conditioner and moisturize twice a day. Now, I only have to moisturize my ends once a week. You will find that the healthier your hair gets, the less you need to do to it.
Hope this helps!!