Bubblingbrownshuga
Well-Known Member
My head hurts.
I really can see myself purposefully staying single. I just don't have any hope when it comes to love and marriage anymore.
Yes, I have been hurt and I know time heals all wounds, but I have never been so sure about myself and this 'love thang.'
I am at a point where I just don't have the time nor the energy to even TRY to start again.
I also realized that in my recently tanked relationship that just because a man's not hitting you or cheating on you doesn't mean you should stay with him.
I give men the side eye hard now and I don't care about hurting their fragile egos either...
Interestingly, so many men have been approaching me. I guess my 'I am desperate' personna has changed to a ' I don't give a damn' one and they have been flocking to me like flies to decaying crap AND they have been honest with me about themselves UPFRONT without me asking them reasons for their lack of attention to me. I don't even have to ask for a reason why they didn't call me when they said they would...
I really can see myself purposefully staying single. I just don't have any hope when it comes to love and marriage anymore.
Yes, I have been hurt and I know time heals all wounds, but I have never been so sure about myself and this 'love thang.'
I am at a point where I just don't have the time nor the energy to even TRY to start again.
I also realized that in my recently tanked relationship that just because a man's not hitting you or cheating on you doesn't mean you should stay with him.
I give men the side eye hard now and I don't care about hurting their fragile egos either...
Interestingly, so many men have been approaching me. I guess my 'I am desperate' personna has changed to a ' I don't give a damn' one and they have been flocking to me like flies to decaying crap AND they have been honest with me about themselves UPFRONT without me asking them reasons for their lack of attention to me. I don't even have to ask for a reason why they didn't call me when they said they would...
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