Prettymetty
Natural/4b/medium-coarse
Have you been in one? Are you in one now? What are your thoughts and experiences?
Currently I am married to an Italian/Hispanic man. He works hard, takes care of home, great with our kids, etc. When we first started dating black guys would give me a hard time about dating outside of my race. And occassionally a white girl tries to test me, but I kindly let them know to have several seats lol!
My DH is white but in the past I only dated black guys. I never had a preference for one or the other, the way I see it is that my exes were a$$es and my DH is not. Simple for me. His family was always very welcoming, though it took a bit for my family to get over themselves.
Unfortunately some people don't see it that way. All the flack we got from our relationship has been from random black guys. The worse was one day when we were walking home from work, literally just walking not holding hands or anything. Some guy at the corner was eyeing us weird but I paid him no mind. As we passed he muttered something under his breath. I turned and said "excuse me?" and he just unloads on me. He called me all kinds of names and said other horrible things. It was so unnerving. The worse was he was in our neighborhood and from time to time I would hear someone yelling and see that it was him, cursing me out again. This even happened once when I was walking with my then boss to a meeting Afterwards we reported it to the campus police. That was probably over a year ago, and since we moved we haven't seen him since.
That being said if I had to do it over I would absolutely choose DH. If anything, if I ever see that guy again I'll make out with DH in front of him
My DH is white but in the past I only dated black guys. I never had a preference for one or the other, the way I see it is that my exes were a$$es and my DH is not. Simple for me. His family was always very welcoming, though it took a bit for my family to get over themselves.
Unfortunately some people don't see it that way. All the flack we got from our relationship has been from random black guys. The worse was one day when we were walking home from work, literally just walking not holding hands or anything. Some guy at the corner was eyeing us weird but I paid him no mind. As we passed he muttered something under his breath. I turned and said "excuse me?" and he just unloads on me. He called me all kinds of names and said other horrible things. It was so unnerving. The worse was he was in our neighborhood and from time to time I would hear someone yelling and see that it was him, cursing me out again. This even happened once when I was walking with my then boss to a meeting Afterwards we reported it to the campus police. That was probably over a year ago, and since we moved we haven't seen him since.
That being said if I had to do it over I would absolutely choose DH. If anything, if I ever see that guy again I'll make out with DH in front of him
Italian men are on a whole another level . Love them !!
Im currently in an interracial relationship. His father is white & mom is Mexican. No one believes he could be hispanic because his skin is so fair. This is absolutely the best relationship I have ever been in. Im foreseeing an engagement early next year. I want to go to the court house however he insists for me to be patient so that he can give me a proper proposal & a big wedding. *shrugs* Court house just seems better to me.
pre_medicalrulz
wow you see how quickly things can change
just last year we were all complaining about being single...and look at you now haha
Courthouse is just fine for me. I cant see myself spending all that money for a day. You know how many wigs/conditioners/oils I can buy with that $$? Shoot lmao!!
lol I remember you mentioning him but did not know it was that grand. You met him whie you were out and about huh?
pre_medicalrulz
i need to get out of the house...dang!