If you had to get Married All over Again, Would you do it for Love or the Money?

[MizAvalon]

OMG!!! I can not BREATHE!!!!!!!!!!

PF, a warning next time please!

 

[Ms Red]

Never married but I already know love alone is not going to cut it.

It takes financial stability, communication, trust, respect.... love isn't up there.

 

[*5+5]

I have 2 really close married friends. One is 24 and married to a guy that is 36, the other is 27 and married to a guy that is 41. They both have a child from a previous relationship and married for security citing love will come. I must say they are well taken care of as for everything else time will tell...

ETA: I plan to marry for love and LOVE only, I'll have my own money.

 

[MizAvalon]

I have 2 really close married friends. One is 24 and married to a guy that is 36, the other is 27 and married to a guy that is 41. They both have a child from a previous relationship and married for security citing love will come. I must say they are well taken care of as for everything else time will tell...

ETA: I plan to marry for love and LOVE only, I'll have my own money.

I have a friend who is a single mother who is considering marrying a guy that she only "likes" for security. I doubt she would have ever considered that before she had a child.

 

[*5+5]

I have a friend who is a single mother who is considering marrying a guy that she only "likes" for security. I doubt she would have ever considered that before she had a child.

I'm almost certain that being a single mom was the ultimate contributing factor for my friends also, considering they had never dated such older men before.

 

[Blossoming^]

I am not mad at all, love don't pay the rent.

 

[LaPetiteCoquette]

Married for both (though he is no sugar daddy ala Simmons or Heff), and I'd do it again.

 

[Valerie]

Why is it always one or the other. I will marry for both love and money!

 

[Moonxyz]

Ill pass on love.

Compatibility and money all the way.

 

[fivetimestwo]

Money.

That is all.

 

[Ms.Honey]

Sex and money

 

[DSP]

If I were widowed from my current DH, I'd marry again for companionship and money. I can't imagine loving anyone else the way I love him.

 

[mango387]

I have known people who married for love and are in torment.
I have known people who married for money and are in torment.
I have never been married so their stories and yours are NOT helping.

I'm kidding. I think that both are important where I would have said LOVE ONLY in the past.

 

[jamaicalovely]

I guess I'm the only one that would marry for money.

No, you're not.

Would definitely marry for the money. When its about love, harder to walk away.

 

[Mortons]

Wuv

I would be a bad wife if I married for money. There are things that I will only do for someone I love, and I want to give my spouse my all.

 

[MD_Lady]

I married for love and I'd marry for love again. Love keeps you around when there's no money, but money doesn't always keep people around when there's no love.