If You Divorced DH (or Broke-Up w/SO), Who Would Have it Easier in the Dating World?
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Lady Esquire
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See, I know DH would get some jump offs...to keep him entertained. But as he gets older, I don't know, he seems like he couldn't be bothered with the dumb ish that comes with the dating thing.
Definitely me. Yep with my two kids and at 33, I know I would. Dh would just find some jump-offs, as men do.
See, I know DH would get some jump offs...to keep him entertained. But as he gets older, I don't know, he seems like he couldn't be bothered with the dumb ish that comes with the dating thing.
MizAvalon
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My friend is this way. She has three kids and has been single for about 6 or 7 years now and no one meets her kids, EVER.
My friend is this way. She has three kids and has been single for about 6 or 7 years now and no one meets her kids, EVER.
Evolving78
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he would, because he would be starting all over again. he would have no kids or anything for that matter. LOL!
he would, because he would be starting all over again. he would have no kids or anything for that matter. LOL!
SleekandBouncy
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It would be equal. Me on the merit of being a woman, having a vaheena (albeit tiny tatas), being pretty and my personality. Just being blunt. Not to say my other accomplishments wouldn't factor in, it's just that men don't have the same criterias as women. A vagina is half the battle. You could put a vagina on the forehead of a skunk and men will follow. Make the skunk pretty with the right personality/attributes and you've shut the game down.
Where it gets tough for women is that we're more picky IMO. All the options mean nothing if you're not finding exactly what you want.
I think it would be easy for him because he has the traditional attributes women look for in men, plus the extras.
It would be equal. Me on the merit of being a woman, having a vaheena (albeit tiny tatas), being pretty and my personality. Just being blunt. Not to say my other accomplishments wouldn't factor in, it's just that men don't have the same criterias as women. A vagina is half the battle. You could put a vagina on the forehead of a skunk and men will follow. Make the skunk pretty with the right personality/attributes and you've shut the game down.
Where it gets tough for women is that we're more picky IMO. All the options mean nothing if you're not finding exactly what you want.
I think it would be easy for him because he has the traditional attributes women look for in men, plus the extras.
TheseStankyLegs
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MY DH would.
He is more marketable to his "audience" than I am to mine. He has a nice body, all of his teeth (and they are pretty too), a degree, and he is very handsome. Not to mention he has a good car and his career makes him GREAT money. Y'all know women don't care about a man having a child and black men who are athletes have the "crossover" advantage, so he is not limited to black women.
For me, I'd just be a bitter black woman, with a child and an attitude. I'm pretty which gives me SOME "cross over" appeal, but IMO, a woman with a child really has her stakes against her. Not to mention, I have an advanced degree and have no problems doing good on my own..and..well..y'all know that's a turn off to a lot of men
MY DH would.
He is more marketable to his "audience" than I am to mine. He has a nice body, all of his teeth (and they are pretty too), a degree, and he is very handsome. Not to mention he has a good car and his career makes him GREAT money. Y'all know women don't care about a man having a child and black men who are athletes have the "crossover" advantage, so he is not limited to black women.
For me, I'd just be a bitter black woman, with a child and an attitude. I'm pretty which gives me SOME "cross over" appeal, but IMO, a woman with a child really has her stakes against her. Not to mention, I have an advanced degree and have no problems doing good on my own..and..well..y'all know that's a turn off to a lot of men
Lady Esquire
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And if the kids did meet him for whatever reason, he wouldn't be "Uncle Anybody"...that gets on my nerves, my kids are too smart to be springing random uncles on them.
Yeah, if more women understood the power of the poonanie, that can prevent a lot of unneccessary heartache.
Why would he need to meet my kids? Unless he's performing magic tricks or put a spell on me, there is no reason for you to meet my kids. Not until the last one is a freshman in college...trust me, I was that kid that watched men come in, after my mom's 2nd divorce...it is highly unnecessary. He would have to be dipped in holy water and hypnotizing me in everyway.
And if the kids did meet him for whatever reason, he wouldn't be "Uncle Anybody"...that gets on my nerves, my kids are too smart to be springing random uncles on them.
Yeah, if more women understood the power of the poonanie, that can prevent a lot of unneccessary heartache.
biancaelyse
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It's not only the athletes that cross over. My husband is very nice and has a very attractive personality. He draws many different ethnicities and a pretty wide age range too!!'
As far as crossover appeal goes, I evidently can pull men and women so maybe there would be hope for me after all!!
It's not only the athletes that cross over. My husband is very nice and has a very attractive personality. He draws many different ethnicities and a pretty wide age range too!!'
As far as crossover appeal goes, I evidently can pull men and women so maybe there would be hope for me after all!!
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SleekandBouncy
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There are some men who have the kind of "pull" that allows them to be broke and still draw women. I had an ex like that. He wasn't broke, but even if he were it was the weirdest thing but women no matter where we were or what he was wearing would just gravitate to him, all types of women
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But generally, any man who's successful will do well dating as long as he doesn't have combo 5. Combo 5 means short, fat, pasty, broke, and with a tiny penis. It's the impact of all those factors at one time that's automatic DOA.
So truth be told most men who are successful will do well dating, as long as they bathe, have decent enough personalities and a decent size peeny. Don't let him be a black man with a degree and a profession, aw lawddddd! Money is to women what physical attraction is to men. It get folks to overlook things.
There are some men who have the kind of "pull" that allows them to be broke and still draw women. I had an ex like that. He wasn't broke, but even if he were it was the weirdest thing but women no matter where we were or what he was wearing would just gravitate to him, all types of women
rolleyes:But generally, any man who's successful will do well dating as long as he doesn't have combo 5. Combo 5 means short, fat, pasty, broke, and with a tiny penis. It's the impact of all those factors at one time that's automatic DOA.
So truth be told most men who are successful will do well dating, as long as they bathe, have decent enough personalities and a decent size peeny. Don't let him be a black man with a degree and a profession, aw lawddddd! Money is to women what physical attraction is to men. It get folks to overlook things.
biancaelyse
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Stop!!
Is pasty the ame as ashy?? What about BO and bad hygiene? See, I'm being picky again!!
There are some men who have the kind of "pull" that allows them to be broke and still draw women. I had an ex like that. He wasn't broke, but even if he were it was the weirdest thing but women no matter where we were or what he was wearing would just gravitate to him, all types of women
But generally, any man who's successful will do well dating as long as he doesn't have combo 5. Combo 5 means short, fat, pasty, broke, and with a tiny penis. It's the impact of all those factors at one time that's automatic DOA.
So truth be told most men who are successful will do well dating, as long as they bathe, have decent enough personalities and a decent size peeny. Don't let him be a black man with a degree and a profession, aw lawddddd! Money is to women what physical attraction is to men. It get folks to overlook things.
Stop!!
Is pasty the ame as ashy?? What about BO and bad hygiene? See, I'm being picky again!!
**Glamourlicious**
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I am not sure...but I do know...he will NEVER be the same after me...and he WILL realize his mistake....and that there is only one...tatalicous! LOL
I am not sure...but I do know...he will NEVER be the same after me...and he WILL realize his mistake....and that there is only one...tatalicous! LOL
SleekandBouncy
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Pasty and ashy are in the same pot for the purpose of that post. Pasty if they are light skinnededdd or white and ashy if they are dark skinneded. Money will make most women overlook a lot, but dust coming off your skin or pale clammy skin is not one of them.
Body odor is also part of the unmentioned combo 5. His breath cannot smell like sardines mixed with day old cheese and vinegar.
Stop!!
Is pasty the ame as ashy?? What about BO and bad hygiene? See, I'm being picky again!!
Pasty and ashy are in the same pot for the purpose of that post. Pasty if they are light skinnededdd or white and ashy if they are dark skinneded. Money will make most women overlook a lot, but dust coming off your skin or pale clammy skin is not one of them.
Body odor is also part of the unmentioned combo 5. His breath cannot smell like sardines mixed with day old cheese and vinegar.
BillsBackerz67
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From what I have seen, men move on a lot faster than women after breaking up with someone...and if they are not involved with their children? and the woman is the primary care giver...well theres ur answer right there.
From what I have seen, men move on a lot faster than women after breaking up with someone...and if they are not involved with their children? and the woman is the primary care giver...well theres ur answer right there.
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