Endlesslegs
Well-Known Member
Sorry its long but please read.
Ive been seeing this guy for about two weeks now. We get along really really well and I really enjoy his company. Anyway, the only gripe I have is that he is always late for our dates. I gave him a pass considering he lives far away from me and also has a demanding job. On average he is usually at least 45 mins late to pick me up from my house. We spoke about this and I let him know I found it unacceptable as it shows he was unreliable.
He apologised, blaming traffic and one thing or the other.
Anyway on saturday things came to a head. He was meant to pick me up at 2. He didnt arrive until 4.30. I was LIVID!!! Especially since Id spoken to him around 12 and told him not to be late. He promised he wouldnt. At 3, I rang him to ask where he was since he knew I had stuff to do. He was said he was on his way and asked if I still wanted him to come. WTF? Anyway, I knew then that I would end this thing we were starting because I was so annoyed.
He got here and I told him to forget it. I was not going anywhere with him and said we should forget about seeing each other. He looked at me stunned and asked me why I was so angry and why I didnt tell him not to come before he actually got to mine. I responded ' So you know how it feels to waste someone else's time' and walked away. HE sent me a text later saying 'damn, you are evil' :S I rang him straight away cuz I couldnt believe he still didnt realise why I was so upset. According to him, he didnt know timing would be such an issue btw us. I hung up and we haven't spoken since. I sent him a text to explain my feelings when I was calmer but he didnt respond.
Im kind of upset because I really liked him. There was NO fault i could find with this guy except he seemed ridiculously into me. Everybody noticed and he'd already asked me to be his girl, I had to slow him down. I dont know what to say now. Im a bit suspicious that I may have given him an easy exit because I told him I was a virgin two days before. he was a bit floored (I'm "21 and stunning"-his words) at the news but he said that didnt bother him since he was genuine. Im just surprised he made no effort to explain, he just seemed shocked. Well I did make him drive for an hour just to break it off with him.
Im afraid I over reacted ladies....what say ye?
I ended up going out with my ex in the end but I could only think of the new guy
Ive been seeing this guy for about two weeks now. We get along really really well and I really enjoy his company. Anyway, the only gripe I have is that he is always late for our dates. I gave him a pass considering he lives far away from me and also has a demanding job. On average he is usually at least 45 mins late to pick me up from my house. We spoke about this and I let him know I found it unacceptable as it shows he was unreliable.
He apologised, blaming traffic and one thing or the other.
Anyway on saturday things came to a head. He was meant to pick me up at 2. He didnt arrive until 4.30. I was LIVID!!! Especially since Id spoken to him around 12 and told him not to be late. He promised he wouldnt. At 3, I rang him to ask where he was since he knew I had stuff to do. He was said he was on his way and asked if I still wanted him to come. WTF? Anyway, I knew then that I would end this thing we were starting because I was so annoyed.
He got here and I told him to forget it. I was not going anywhere with him and said we should forget about seeing each other. He looked at me stunned and asked me why I was so angry and why I didnt tell him not to come before he actually got to mine. I responded ' So you know how it feels to waste someone else's time' and walked away. HE sent me a text later saying 'damn, you are evil' :S I rang him straight away cuz I couldnt believe he still didnt realise why I was so upset. According to him, he didnt know timing would be such an issue btw us. I hung up and we haven't spoken since. I sent him a text to explain my feelings when I was calmer but he didnt respond.
Im kind of upset because I really liked him. There was NO fault i could find with this guy except he seemed ridiculously into me. Everybody noticed and he'd already asked me to be his girl, I had to slow him down. I dont know what to say now. Im a bit suspicious that I may have given him an easy exit because I told him I was a virgin two days before. he was a bit floored (I'm "21 and stunning"-his words) at the news but he said that didnt bother him since he was genuine. Im just surprised he made no effort to explain, he just seemed shocked. Well I did make him drive for an hour just to break it off with him.
Im afraid I over reacted ladies....what say ye?
I ended up going out with my ex in the end but I could only think of the new guy