LivingDol1
Well-Known Member
ugh... okay, i am feeling more sure than ever that I need to go on some dates and see who is out there on this planet. i am frustrated with my options though.
living in manhattan is hard. it's a gay man's playground. i've tried match.com, yahoo.com, okcupid.com... and on those sites either i find a long distance connection that never turns into anything or i go on a few lackluster dates... or nothing.
my circle of friends aren't too helpful. most of my friends are girls. the guys in my circle are gay... i have a few straight guy friends but their single friends are not my type. like extra nerdy, not attractive, etc.
speed dating was suggested to me but i don't know... it sounds like it could be fun or a real waste of my time.
i just came back from a gathering with friends and i was telling one of them that i really felt like i needed to get out there and date. he(gay) and our other friends were saying that i'm clearly beautiful, stylish, i have a great job, etc... all desirable things....but they are things that guys might find that intimidating and be put off by... like i'm out of their league...?
i don't necessarily think that's true b/c outside of my appearance, nobody knows a thing about me until they attempt to get to know me. i'm not a celebrity, millionaire, a model or some sort of genius... so what makes me out of someone's league?
i don't know what to do! part of me has considered stepping it up and trying one of those elite matchmaking services. i mean, if i'm really look at as "out of your league" for most, then... how does a girl like me meet someone who thinks i'm in their league?!
living in manhattan is hard. it's a gay man's playground. i've tried match.com, yahoo.com, okcupid.com... and on those sites either i find a long distance connection that never turns into anything or i go on a few lackluster dates... or nothing.
my circle of friends aren't too helpful. most of my friends are girls. the guys in my circle are gay... i have a few straight guy friends but their single friends are not my type. like extra nerdy, not attractive, etc.
speed dating was suggested to me but i don't know... it sounds like it could be fun or a real waste of my time.
i just came back from a gathering with friends and i was telling one of them that i really felt like i needed to get out there and date. he(gay) and our other friends were saying that i'm clearly beautiful, stylish, i have a great job, etc... all desirable things....but they are things that guys might find that intimidating and be put off by... like i'm out of their league...?
i don't necessarily think that's true b/c outside of my appearance, nobody knows a thing about me until they attempt to get to know me. i'm not a celebrity, millionaire, a model or some sort of genius... so what makes me out of someone's league?
i don't know what to do! part of me has considered stepping it up and trying one of those elite matchmaking services. i mean, if i'm really look at as "out of your league" for most, then... how does a girl like me meet someone who thinks i'm in their league?!