Enyo
Well-Known Member
Ladies,
I'm putting this in the relationship forum because I suspect this has more to do with that.
The question is pretty straightforward. A woman at my job has two children by a deadbeat dad. Apparently, the second was was conceived on a brief visit to her Maryland for a visit with his older daughter. Normally, he lives in Indiana, but came every month or so to see his child. Whenever she talks about her future ex-husband (she has filed already), she often follows it up by saying "I love my kids" and looking nervous.
Now, I don't have children, so my situation with my jerk ex-husband was very different. I just want to know why she feels the need to emphasize her love of her children every time she talks about this man. She does everything for them and didn't even complain publicly when her older girl was diagnosed with diabetes and required loads of appointments. She comes across as a typical mom with two girls who she worships. Nothing suspicious about it.
Lots of women have man issues with their baby daddies/ex-husbands but clearly love their kids. I've never encountered a woman who felt the need to follow up her man issues by a nervous professional of love for her children. What's up? Does she really think we suspect that she hates her kids because their father is no good?
I'm putting this in the relationship forum because I suspect this has more to do with that.
The question is pretty straightforward. A woman at my job has two children by a deadbeat dad. Apparently, the second was was conceived on a brief visit to her Maryland for a visit with his older daughter. Normally, he lives in Indiana, but came every month or so to see his child. Whenever she talks about her future ex-husband (she has filed already), she often follows it up by saying "I love my kids" and looking nervous.
Now, I don't have children, so my situation with my jerk ex-husband was very different. I just want to know why she feels the need to emphasize her love of her children every time she talks about this man. She does everything for them and didn't even complain publicly when her older girl was diagnosed with diabetes and required loads of appointments. She comes across as a typical mom with two girls who she worships. Nothing suspicious about it.
Lots of women have man issues with their baby daddies/ex-husbands but clearly love their kids. I've never encountered a woman who felt the need to follow up her man issues by a nervous professional of love for her children. What's up? Does she really think we suspect that she hates her kids because their father is no good?