I'm sorry bludacious. Don't give up. Keep trying. Practice makes perfect. I'm getting better at my braidouts, twistouts and bantus. They're not perfect yet but they are getting better each time. I've never used flexi rods so I can't comment on them. Are you doing your twistouts wet or dry. I did mine wet the first few times. My shoulder length hair turned into a short curly afro. So now I do them dry. Much better results. Good luck.