brownelovely
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So, although I've been out of the dating game for a hot minute I decided to still get out and try to meet and greet...keeping hope alive in other words. So, I met a nice guy that I'm really thinking that I would like eventually have a relationship with.
Problem is...he's the type that's always . It's almost like pulling freaking teeth to keep the conversation lively. There's no flirting (on his end), no compliments, or should I just say nothing that makes me feel . I even broke down during a conversation and just flat out said that if you're not interested then stop calling me. He says he's very interested but just takes time for him to get comfy.
My personality is very outgoing and I love to laugh. He says once he gets comfortable enough he'll loosen up...I on the other hand am like>>how long is that gonna take? I'll admit I'm not the most patient person but I just refuse to talk to someone that is always melancholy. (seriously, that's the best word to describe this )
Any advice on how to deal with dating someone difficult?
So, although I've been out of the dating game for a hot minute I decided to still get out and try to meet and greet...keeping hope alive in other words. So, I met a nice guy that I'm really thinking that I would like eventually have a relationship with.
Problem is...he's the type that's always . It's almost like pulling freaking teeth to keep the conversation lively. There's no flirting (on his end), no compliments, or should I just say nothing that makes me feel . I even broke down during a conversation and just flat out said that if you're not interested then stop calling me. He says he's very interested but just takes time for him to get comfy.
My personality is very outgoing and I love to laugh. He says once he gets comfortable enough he'll loosen up...I on the other hand am like>>how long is that gonna take? I'll admit I'm not the most patient person but I just refuse to talk to someone that is always melancholy. (seriously, that's the best word to describe this )
Any advice on how to deal with dating someone difficult?