I am a good doobie too. I heat up an oil combo add castor oil with essential oils, vitamin E and sheep sorrel and a very large dollop of vaseline... I use it when I put extensions in and to moisturize my bun. It just melts into my hair. I keep my container in the FREEZER, and take it out to use it and put it back. It keeps very well. Now if I want a heavy coating on my hair before I braid, I use just plain vaseline. It works and keeps my hair soft. Lovely lovely hair Leezure and you are a natural inspiration. Bonjour.