dancinstallion
Well-Known Member
That other thread has really gave me a reality check. I am the placeholder wife, Or do I just feel that way because deep inside of me, Dh has been my placeholder husband. The only thing is after 13 years I haven't found anyone better than him. So it is either keep the placeholder or become divorced with children.
I wasn't always the placeholder wife but I know the last few years I have been. I know he has been looking but I know he is too lazy or too cheap to court the women properly, or he can't find what he is looking for. I feel like he uses me as his crutch and if he could find someone else to do it for him then he would.
I wasn't always the placeholder wife but I know the last few years I have been. I know he has been looking but I know he is too lazy or too cheap to court the women properly, or he can't find what he is looking for. I feel like he uses me as his crutch and if he could find someone else to do it for him then he would.