discobiscuits
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i like this story lemme try
so suppose i went to this club with my EX and danced and ran into my beloved SO with his real girlfriend (oops, my bad) his female friend.
I wonder what would happen next?
"Two Can Play That Game" anyone?
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seriously though. that is straight up disrespect and he is NOT your SO.
posts 2, 3 & 4 were all the advice you needed.
so suppose i went to this club with my EX and danced and ran into my beloved SO with his real girlfriend (oops, my bad) his female friend.
I wonder what would happen next?
"Two Can Play That Game" anyone?
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seriously though. that is straight up disrespect and he is NOT your SO.
posts 2, 3 & 4 were all the advice you needed.
Suppose you met her before and actually went on a couple outings with her and SO?
He told me.
Oh wait-----lemme get back into story mode: Suppose he was the one that told you that he was going to the club?
Suppose you plan a date with your SO. You decide that you will pay for this date and you give him the choice of going wherever he wants (within reason). He settles on going to see a movie of HIS choice and HE picks the day you will go to the movie.
Then, about 5 hours before you are supposed to head out, he txts you and tells you that something came up and that he will need to reschedule.
Later, you find out that he is going to the club with a female friend of his.
You are left with nothing to do on a Friday night.
Thoughts?
He told me exactly where he was going before he went. I guess he didn't invite me because he knows I'm not the clubbing type. But I think that the polite thing to do would have been to take a raincheck on the club, and go out with me.
We've only been together for a couple months. I think I'm a pretty liberal girlfriend in that I let him go to clubs in the first place without being paranoid. erplexed
Paranoia starts in 3....2....1....
oh LAWD!
All I was saying is that it's really early in the relationship and my comfort level is---was fine with him going to a club on occasion. He doesn't do it often.
Oh yes, I will be having a discussion about that. Why am I second to his female "friends"?
No he did not ask if I would be ok with it, and no apology. No nothing. I guess he expected me to be grateful that he told me where he was going tonight.
I have no idea why they couldn't go tomorrow night.
Man, this whole thing doesnt even make sense to me....he acts like the perfect boyfriend and then hits me with this mess....