GoingNatural
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I mean, I've already done what I'm going to do so you can say I'm right or wrong--doesn't matter. But I am interested to know how others would handle the situation.
Okay, so in regard to P. Charm (see previous post for more information). The night I met him (again) we ended up talking for a bit afterward before I drove off and went home. I get a call from a close associate while speaking to him so I tell her I'm going to call her back. Then I get a text from her asking if P. Charm was at the club I was at (He's well known) because he was supposed to make an appearance club she was at. Following, that she asks if he tried to talk to me and I said yes I gave him my number and we talked. She then continues to tell me she likes him and I knew that. While, I have heard her mention his name before I never heard her say she liked him BUT she does like a lot of people so I'm not surprised. So she goes on to say she has liked him for two years and she has been speaking to him (just speaking) during that time. Mind you, she admits that she has never messed around with him AND recognizes she has had sex with a close friend of his.
After hearing this, I call him and ask him about the situation. He says she is a really great person and they have worked together. He didn't know she liked him especially seeing as she has messed around with his friend. He also mentions she doesn't even have his number--she is always texting his assistant. He also mentions, slyly, that if he would of known she knew me all this time he would have asked her for my number!
The following morning she calls me and reiterates that she likes him and she is humiliated because she likes him and she thought he knew that. So she felt like she was being played. She told me that she's not comfortable with me and P. Charm talking but she doesn't want to be the reason we don't talk. I quickly tell her, "well, if we stop talking it would be because of you and no other reason." So, she says see I dont want that but blah blah blah. Then she continues to say she knows she is out A LOT and likes A LOT of people, and that she doesn't want to be the girl that likes everyone and her people aren't able to date anyone because of that. (Which is TRUE. Due to her professional she meets a lot of people, attractive men. She has many relationships/friendships/crushes).
So the next day he has to make an appearance at a party her employer is having (he asked me to come over and over again, but I didn't want to cause an awkward situation). He later tells me she walked up to him and stated "I like you, I've liked you for a long time--what are you going to do about it." I believe him because that sounds just like her--AGGRESSIVE! So he continues to tell her that she's a nice person, but he doesn't like her like that. That his close friend has feelings for her and that he likes me. Later on I come to the party with a few of my girlfriends, I saw hi to P. Charm, but keep it moving. I then text her because my girlfriends are leaving the spot so I wanted to see what she was doing. We end up meeting and she quickly escorts me out of the club and walks me to my car saying she is busy tonight so I should just go home (I'm pretty sure she didn't know that I knew P. Charm was there).
My choice has been to keep talking to him. I don't consider her a friend--I do consider her a close associate. We do hang out occasionally, but usually at the club when she is working. What would you do in the situation?
Information on how I met P.Charm: http://ilietomydiary.blogspot.com/2009/07/just-like-disney-movie.html
Okay, so in regard to P. Charm (see previous post for more information). The night I met him (again) we ended up talking for a bit afterward before I drove off and went home. I get a call from a close associate while speaking to him so I tell her I'm going to call her back. Then I get a text from her asking if P. Charm was at the club I was at (He's well known) because he was supposed to make an appearance club she was at. Following, that she asks if he tried to talk to me and I said yes I gave him my number and we talked. She then continues to tell me she likes him and I knew that. While, I have heard her mention his name before I never heard her say she liked him BUT she does like a lot of people so I'm not surprised. So she goes on to say she has liked him for two years and she has been speaking to him (just speaking) during that time. Mind you, she admits that she has never messed around with him AND recognizes she has had sex with a close friend of his.
After hearing this, I call him and ask him about the situation. He says she is a really great person and they have worked together. He didn't know she liked him especially seeing as she has messed around with his friend. He also mentions she doesn't even have his number--she is always texting his assistant. He also mentions, slyly, that if he would of known she knew me all this time he would have asked her for my number!
The following morning she calls me and reiterates that she likes him and she is humiliated because she likes him and she thought he knew that. So she felt like she was being played. She told me that she's not comfortable with me and P. Charm talking but she doesn't want to be the reason we don't talk. I quickly tell her, "well, if we stop talking it would be because of you and no other reason." So, she says see I dont want that but blah blah blah. Then she continues to say she knows she is out A LOT and likes A LOT of people, and that she doesn't want to be the girl that likes everyone and her people aren't able to date anyone because of that. (Which is TRUE. Due to her professional she meets a lot of people, attractive men. She has many relationships/friendships/crushes).
So the next day he has to make an appearance at a party her employer is having (he asked me to come over and over again, but I didn't want to cause an awkward situation). He later tells me she walked up to him and stated "I like you, I've liked you for a long time--what are you going to do about it." I believe him because that sounds just like her--AGGRESSIVE! So he continues to tell her that she's a nice person, but he doesn't like her like that. That his close friend has feelings for her and that he likes me. Later on I come to the party with a few of my girlfriends, I saw hi to P. Charm, but keep it moving. I then text her because my girlfriends are leaving the spot so I wanted to see what she was doing. We end up meeting and she quickly escorts me out of the club and walks me to my car saying she is busy tonight so I should just go home (I'm pretty sure she didn't know that I knew P. Charm was there).
My choice has been to keep talking to him. I don't consider her a friend--I do consider her a close associate. We do hang out occasionally, but usually at the club when she is working. What would you do in the situation?
Information on how I met P.Charm: http://ilietomydiary.blogspot.com/2009/07/just-like-disney-movie.html