Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
Is determined by who your family is. I know this sounds stupid but I am starting to notice that a lot of men in the Haitian culture especially seem to go after women who’s family is well known in the community. I also notice these same men will not cross certain boundaries with these women in fear that the women’s family will come after him. I had this discussion with a cousin of mine who is married but claims he does not like the women, they have a child togheter and he cheats but refuses to leave her. I think he does not leave because the girls family has money and many of her uncles have large business in Haiti and here in the US. He dated a young girl before marrying this one and she was not well off but was trying to make it on her own but he never married her, though he said he loved her. I just think who your family is, really determines the type of men you will attract and who will stay with you. I would like to here everyone’s opinion on this because this is something I am noticing more and more.