Hi ladies!
I want to thank everyone who kept it 100% real about what it generally takes to attract a rich man. I've learned SO MUCH!!! We all know there are exceptions. There are women who may have broken 50% of the "rules" and they still ended up with a rich man. But I appreciate the listing of the general rules. Not everyone will be a unicorn.
I think what we have to do now is ask ourselves if we are willing to do "all of that" to attract a rich man. Is it really worth it to us? Some of us will say "yes" and some of us will say "no." The good news is that no matter your final answer, it does not reflect the value of who you are as a woman.
If being an adventurous sky-diver is not your thing, that does not mean something is wrong with you.
If being a size 4 is not your thing, that does not mean something is wrong with you.
If being submissive is not your thing, that does not mean something is wrong with you.
I just hope that whatever we ultimately decide fits us, we will continuously strive to be the best women we can be and love ourselves. We are worth being treasured and one day we'll meet the right man who will do just that.
Thanks again for the great advice!
EbonyEyes your post is interesting because it touches on changeing yourself vs. being your better self to get a man. The latter to me of of course would be better. I don't think anyone should change the essential core of who they are for a man but of course you can always (and IMO should) evolve as time/circumstances warrant.
I think the bottom line is pick and choose what advice in the thread applies to you and leave what doesn't.
The other thing I've realized is that attracting a rich man is the easy part. Finding a rich man that I want is a whole different ball game.
I like what
SweetNic_JA said about networking as it echoes my own experience. I do try and make sure I expand my social circle but I realized that while I meet very interesting people. I have trouble "converting" so to speak. I like people to come to me and if they don't I KIM.
Sometimes I do take the initiative to initiate re-contact but very rarely. I was told this is a sign of insecurity
but then again who knows.
For example, I was out tonight and I met a guy who owns his own company but is friendly with the CFO of the company I used to work for. I could sense he was connected. Anyway he gave me his card and asked for mine, but I didn't have one on me. I could have written my information down but couldn't be bothered. Same with another woman I met a while back, who was head of HR at some company. Turns out her boss/buddy is a close friend of some prominent politicians.
I also met a woman who owns a nursing company and was friends with a matchmaker. She gave me the matchmakers info and told me to contact her. I also met this guy who is a managing partner at a pretty well known accounting firm (well he was an exception because he was a pervy creep so technically he doesn't count)
I say all this to say, I feel like I meet interesting people who could introduce me to great/well to do men but I don't keep these contacts going. Aside from just finding a man, they may be helpful as I am contemplating leaving my current industry.
In light of this thread, what are you all doing to keep in contact and network your way into different circles. I am tagging
FemmeFatale and
sweet_nic ja specifically since they mentioned it. Do you send an email or text after you meet them or just wait for them to contact you?