cherishlove
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I'll wait for a more experienced poster, but to me its just like networking but with some flirt.
This!!!! I have been following this thread. I use all of these techniques and have landed some big contracts.
I'll wait for a more experienced poster, but to me its just like networking but with some flirt.
Well when I was a size 2/4 living in Atlanta, I visited my family in NYC. My brother sat me down for 45 minutes and told me that he loves me and really wants me to see someone about my weight. I couldn't believe it! Way too concerned. I was just slim. He was used to the "Thick" version of me.
Now that I'm a size 8, everyone is happy. I'm on my way to a size 2/4 again.
This!!!! I have been following this thread. I use all of these techniques and have landed some big contracts.
soldier4hair, can you elaborate? I don't understand... What techniques? What contracts?
My question is mostly about social settings where people aren't necessarily expected to mingle outside of their groups. And I find that, with group events, that is often the case. People stick to their own if they belong to an in-group. And then when they interact with members outside that group, some of the early questions are about whom you know and what brings you to the event. That especially annoys me when white people ask me that, but that's a side note.
If a woman is alone at an exclusive event, what's her response?
soldier4hair, can you elaborate? I don't understand... What techniques? What contracts?
My question is mostly about social settings where people aren't necessarily expected to mingle outside of their groups. And I find that, with group events, that is often the case. People stick to their own if they belong to an in-group. And then when they interact with members outside that group, some of the early questions are about whom you know and what brings you to the event. That especially annoys me when white people ask me that, but that's a side note.
If a woman is alone at an exclusive event, what's her response?
Oh no, you're leaving! But there hasn't been a SF Bay meetup yet; I don't know of too many SF Bay LHCF ladies on here.
Last year, I remember seeing advertisements around the piers for the LV cup, but never knew what it was. Good luck Lenee925 at getting some contacts Perhaps you could search the event in google images and see what pops up, like pics of the spectators so that you can see what women wear? My first thought would be a nice sundress, but I could be wrong.
FelaShrine,
You follow me from thread to thread just to complain about my opinions. T
I found this blog link on what to wear to the LV/America's Cup
http://www.savvyspice.com/2013/07/americas-cup-style.html
soldier4hair, can you elaborate? I don't understand... What techniques? What contracts?
My question is mostly about social settings where people aren't necessarily expected to mingle outside of their groups. And I find that, with group events, that is often the case. People stick to their own if they belong to an in-group. And then when they interact with members outside that group, some of the early questions are about whom you know and what brings you to the event. That especially annoys me when white people ask me that, but that's a side note.
If a woman is alone at an exclusive event, what's her response?
That is a standard staple YT question, lol.
THIS.
I know my limits, I'm not built for a rich man. fortune and/or fame frighten the hell out of me. I dont do well under pressure. The expectations that usually come with dating/marrying rich are too much for me. From appearance (hitting the gym EVERYDAY) to being able to STFU. yea, not my thing. I feel like I would crack like Caroline-Bissett or one of those super depressed drunken-prescription med abusing housewives that have to go to rehab. I need to feel and be accessible to people.
Sometimes I feel like people can romanticize certain types of relationships or men. They are all a lot of work. But rich men are a their own breed. For me, I'll take the pay cut and shoot a little lower. There are other traits I prefer that trump money anyway.
At the same time, I do like acquiring friends who date and marry rich. I'm a shameless opportunist.
and the response is..?
Gilt City voucher
I'm going way off tangent here[/B], but I will say that NYC has a very nasty hook-up culture. I.
lol care to expound and what do you mean by having to be more vulnerable..im assuming how you let the bartender know you were new around town or more than that?
anyway great post
To summarize - present yourself with class. Don't be over done. Don't look desperate and let people know you know your worth.
@soldier4hair, can you elaborate? I don't understand... What techniques? What contracts?
My question is mostly about social settings where people aren't necessarily expected to mingle outside of their groups. And I find that, with group events, that is often the case. People stick to their own if they belong to an in-group. And then when they interact with members outside that group, some of the early questions are about whom you know and what brings you to the event. That especially annoys me when white people ask me that, but that's a side note.
If a woman is alone at an exclusive event, what's her response?
Any luck with investment clubs or groups? Last year I went to a local stock group meeting, but yikes. I was the only woman, the only non-white person, and everyone was 30 years older than me. I did manage to make some investment connections, but nothing even remotely close to social. I'm sure the group make up would be a lot different in more diverse cities.
Look at you clowning and I'm trying to be helpful. You always do that.
Oh I just realized I may have something tangible to contribute.
Some coffee houses in well-to-do areas have regular events where the focus is classic/expensive/unusual cars. (weekly or monthly)
Put on a "natural" makeup look and some casual but very flattering clothes and head out for a cup of joe. If you happen to see a cute guy with an expensive car ask a question, he's there because he wants to talk to someone about it.
soldier4hair, can you elaborate? I don't understand... What techniques? What contracts?
My question is mostly about social settings where people aren't necessarily expected to mingle outside of their groups. And I find that, with group events, that is often the case. People stick to their own if they belong to an in-group. And then when they interact with members outside that group, some of the early questions are about whom you know and what brings you to the event. That especially annoys me when white people ask me that, but that's a side note.
If a woman is alone at an exclusive event, what's her response?
I'm a business owner and with my business what I have done is just went to events that I was not invited to acted like I was suppose to
be there carried conversation that led to contracts for my business. Being the cute in the room everyone would like to know what she does and how I can be helped. Kind of like a damsel in distress.
I started a thread on this in the career thread with little response. I found this thread and have done the things mentioned and have landed some contracts that led to money for me. Made a couple millionaire contacts that trusted me. That is all