I don't know if this question has been answered already but does your hair have to be real? I've seen some ladies mention that they tend to go for women who have blown out/straight, or otherwise "bombshell" hair. How important is it that it's all hers?
Dammit! Lucky girl um, that's great. Flutter your eyelashes and tell him what you want? "Well, I was really thinking about this particular one... or that one. I think either would look so amazing on my blah blah blah..." And then let him do what he implies he will do? And if he doesn't, drop him, because it is not nice to get one's hopes up like that. Here I am excited for you because of his generosity. Hmph.
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I need help!! So I think the guy I'm dating is doing more than just well..and I need some advice!
We went out this weekend, everything was great, I mean superb. Well, during our date we were discussing NYC real estate and I mentioned how I just moved and showed him a clip of my new place. My living room is bare at the moment except for my dining area and cable box/router set up
Why oh why did he send me a message today asking what type of TV would I like, regular or smart and what size? And that he'd like to help me furnish my living room?
I'm stunned, speechless and a little scared to be honest. I like him and I want the TV but ummm..this is foreign to me!
CarLiTa If this were happening to a friend I'd be excited too but I'm actually shocked, this has been the expression on my face for the past 2 hrs: look:look:
Err youve dated african men before. I find it hard to believe that its foreign
anyway is this the Seneglese dude?
If you're like me, you're probably wondering: okay, under what conditions? Dude, what do you want??
Last time someone offered to buy me something expensive, I kept chickening out and going around the bush to the point that I never got the gift. I resented my behavior so I've decided that, in the future, if you offer, then I'm going to try my best to gracefully accept. I didn't ask you to offer, and I won't insult you by saying no thanks
Is he Muslim?
African Christians never have money cos they stay tithing
seriously take that ish with a smily thanks.
On the other hand, what I told the guy was that I wasn't sure I was ready to accept such a big gift blah blah, and he was very complimentary and basically said I let him down in a most classy, thoughtful and feminine way. At the time I was like hm, I guess I didn't do so badly, but then I kept beating around the bush and lost the opportunity. Drats.
It is tricky accepting such a random and early gift. But that is awfully nice
Though I guess you haven't had much chance to gauge his personality. Is he going to be one of those men who acts privileged to your gift? Is he going to want to invite himself over to watch the TV?
Ladies, how do you deal with situations where you go somewhere and a man zeroes in on you, sticks to you like glue and will not leave you alone for the night. Is there a strategy to avoid this - because I find it highly annoying.
This happened with me at a polo match the last time I was out, and it happens very often. I don't want to be mean, so help me please.
If you're like me, you're probably wondering: okay, under what conditions? Dude, what do you want??
Last time someone offered to buy me something expensive, I kept chickening out and going around the bush to the point that I never got the gift. I resented my behavior so I've decided that, in the future, if you offer, then I'm going to try my best to gracefully accept. I didn't ask you to offer, and I won't insult you by saying no thanks
Touch his hand, giggle, and say "Alright baby, I'm going to go mingle now."
If I wanted to see him again I'd give him a kiss on the cheek before walking away.
He's not fasting?
He's not fasting?
FemmeFatale said:Lol, what time is considered dusk? We had dinner around 9
Lol, what time is considered dusk? We had dinner around 9
8:15, 8:30
Since he's observing Ramadan Imma say he might not be as blaise about it as he claims. all depends on what you're ok with
I know too many who claim not be devout, next min when they get married, wife HAS to give the child a Muslim name and sometimes follow the teachings esp dressing..which is fine if you're ok with that change coming up after the wedding/after child birth
Besides previous dudes making me leery, I'm just in no shape to be dating right now (in a rough transition period). Anyone been in that position? Your own life is such a mess that you're afraid of being that much more vulnerable if you date someone who's got it all together?
I scored box seats at a major tennis match next week, looking forward to seeing what kind of gentlemen are there
8:15, 8:30
Since he's observing Ramadan Imma say he might not be as blaise about it as he claims. all depends on what you're ok with
I know too many who claim not be devout, next min when they get married, wife HAS to give the child a Muslim name and sometimes follow the teachings esp dressing..which is fine if you're ok with that change coming up after the wedding/after child birth