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It Always Been About Hair!
You have it all wrong. The right prenup SECURES your worth.
OooOoOo la la... I like the way you put that!
You have it all wrong. The right prenup SECURES your worth.
So I met a guy while pretending I was registering for a membership at one of the golf clubs here. Now this guy said he has 2 businesses (which mind u he didn't elaborate on), he said he had property in Miami & Palm Beach (but then he said he lives in a condo). Guys, the general conversation was good but I was trying hard not to be soooo interested because I couldn't for the life of me tell if this guy had money or not. I didnt want to 'like' another average guy (my current weakness). I wanted to just come straight out & ask him, 'DO YOU OR DO YOU NOT MAKE 6 FIGURES?!" BOL!!! I know that's bad but I want to change the type of guys I date just once! Anyhoo, we are going on an official date this evening. Any pointers for me ladies?
You have it all wrong. The right prenup SECURES your worth.
I am such a rookie!!!
So I met a guy while pretending I was registering for a membership at one of the golf clubs here. Now this guy said he has 2 businesses (which mind u he didn't elaborate on), he said he had property in Miami & Palm Beach (but then he said he lives in a condo). Guys, the general conversation was good but I was trying hard not to be soooo interested because I couldn't for the life of me tell if this guy had money or not. I didnt want to 'like' another average guy (my current weakness). I wanted to just come straight out & ask him, 'DO YOU OR DO YOU NOT MAKE 6 FIGURES?!" BOL!!! I know that's bad but I want to change the type of guys I date just once! Anyhoo, we are going on an official date this evening. Any pointers for me ladies?
I want to outright admit that I'm not in the mood to do my hair & was leaning on wearing a boring bun. smh. Sigh... I have so much to learn. LOL
So I just googled Honeywell's history to confirm and now I'm sure the guy I met tonight played a key role in jump starting the success of the Honeywell company many years ago. But the company was founded in 1906...not by him.
Another tip: Make sure the guy is clear & honest before you consider him as an option. I would have still loved to add him to my network (partner @ a top consulting firm for majority of his career) but the other guys @ the bar chatted me up & Mr. Honeywell Co went home.
lol well I kind of did the assignment. Went to an upscale type mexican joint where my school was having a party. I was a lone most of the night, but I didnt look very pleasant (hungry!). But still a few men came and chatted me up. They were mostly 5 years my senior at least and from what I could see they were dressed well. (but that kinda come with the territory of being alumni of the consortium) I was not fully trying to participate but I still feel I did ok.
I'll definitely do more next week. I'll be back in nc though where finding a well off black man who wants an educated black woman is a little slim.
I'm in NC to, where are you at? Do you know where the rich black men hang out?
I somewhat fit your same profile: 41,brown skinned, slender, not quite petite (5'5) with natural hair I typically blow out when I go out.
I have one child and don't plan on having anymore. I wonder if that would end up being a hinderance.
So I'm trying to find dresses for Chicago. I need a dress that I can wear on the plane then to lunch then sightseeing then to happy hr. then I need a dress for Saturday when I have to go to a baby shower and I don't know if ill be changing before dinner. And of course I need a going out dress. So I need 3-4 new dresses.
What about those of us who don't have a high power job (i.e. attorney, doc, etc.) is there still hope erplexed I still work and I work hard at my job...no slacker here just not some big amazing one like some of you ladies.
Get the green dress for the airport
I have a very regular job and I attract menz
You have it all wrong. The right prenup SECURES your worth.
DMV ladies billionare Kevin plank CEO of under armour.
Company located in tide point.
Will probably be at Preakness
Thanks PretteePlease !! Do you think I can do the green all day? Airport, lunch, sightseeing, and happy hr?
Depends do you sweat If you are crisp and fresh all day go for it if not change after the sightseeing.
. I'll be back in nc though where finding a well off black man who wants an educated black woman is a little slim.
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If you hang out in uptown Charlotte there are a lot of high powered bank employees and other wealthy men... Black men. Trust me.
Try Nana's or Deltas when they have larger events like greek night of urban league mixers. Also, join the YMCA. All of the who's who in Charlotte go to the Y, don't ask me why, smh.
I've met senior level execs, entrepreneurs, attorneys, a dentist, a Bobcat, 2 Panthers, and list goes on lol; but then again I live in uptown.
If you look the part as many of the ladies on this thread have already diss cussed, the men mentioned above will approach. The community of well of African-Americans is relatively small though so be careful who you entertain.
Happy hunting ladies
Not really.
NC ladies in the triangle area who are in school, go study at the UnC dental school library. I keep telling folks that's where the money is. Nobody listens.
Get the green dress for the airport
Thanks @PretteePlease !! Do you think I can do the green all day? Airport, lunch, sightseeing, and happy hr?
Def the green or orange dress for the airport. Men love bright colors. I wore an orange dress almost identical to the one in the picture on my trip to Chicago. When I looked lost on the airport men were so eager to help me out! lol