sooooooo, i was dating this guy, things are going well, great great great, he proposes, i accept and one day we're in his fancy drop top driving in harlem and we get on the topic of pre-nups, we end up in a nasty argument and that was pretty much the demise of us, i was young and screaming like FU and your pre-nup and etc
did the unthinakble and insulted his dick game so i know there was no coming back from that lol, i was very upset and just young and extra
he calls me one day out the blue two yrs later to tell me remember that energy company we were trying to buy, well we( him and his partners) bought it and I wanted to let you know since you were in my life at the time and helped me do this and blah blah, i responded great news (that mickey fickey wanted to rub it in my face-lame, smdh)
fast forward to dh, his parents would not give us the okay before me agreeing to sign one, so here I am again like hmmmmm, but this time around Im alot older and handled it much better, the terms are def worded the way i want, even though his family has a standard pre-nup for the wives smdh
I totally understand the reason for pre-nups, mofos wanna protect what they have, so do i, i came into my marriage with some coins and property my damn self- but I also dont want to walk away with nothing in the event that dh and i are no longer
anyhoo its signed and im good with the terms and etc
i didnt come into my marriage broke and (in the event)i wont be leaving broke.
did the unthinakble and insulted his dick game so i know there was no coming back from that lol, i was very upset and just young and extra
he calls me one day out the blue two yrs later to tell me remember that energy company we were trying to buy, well we( him and his partners) bought it and I wanted to let you know since you were in my life at the time and helped me do this and blah blah, i responded great news (that mickey fickey wanted to rub it in my face-lame, smdh)
fast forward to dh, his parents would not give us the okay before me agreeing to sign one, so here I am again like hmmmmm, but this time around Im alot older and handled it much better, the terms are def worded the way i want, even though his family has a standard pre-nup for the wives smdh
I totally understand the reason for pre-nups, mofos wanna protect what they have, so do i, i came into my marriage with some coins and property my damn self- but I also dont want to walk away with nothing in the event that dh and i are no longer
anyhoo its signed and im good with the terms and etc
i didnt come into my marriage broke and (in the event)i wont be leaving broke.
Question:
Once you've found the right man and he's got the wealth and puts a ring on it- would you sign a prenup if he asked? I'm thinking of this hypothetically and even I'm torn on this.