VelvetRain
Well-Known Member
In terms of the getting to know you stage I mean the first couple of dates/phone conversations. Is anything off limits to you?
I went on a blind date last night with someone I have been talking to for approximately a week. I was not physically attracted to him when I saw him but he appeared to be with me. I can say this because he kept repeating your really attractive and the total package why are you single crap blah blah blah..... Went as far to invite me to his annual memorial day party at his house(um you don't even me know me yet) Was very boastful about the fact that all the women in his office seem to want him and are always trying to get with him( hmmm I didn't see why because he really was nothing to look at) Yeah he owns his own business and has an Mba but so did my ex boyfriend who is tall and handsome. Again I am not impressed with titles and so called financial status which it appeared he didn't have but that is not the real issue here.
I could barely talk about myself before he would throw out sexual innuendo's. Asked me if the real reason I left my ex was because he had a small peen? Really dude who asks this stuff on a first date? Managed to throw in he considered himself a passionate lover. Told me he planned to a build a house in the near future and how he had the plans at his house. Would you like to come over and see them sometime? Say what? I just hate cockiness as he told me several times I was going to be his. Is that so?
He apparently called me this afternoon despite me not checking my phone all day. Was fooling around on my new iphone which I am not all that familiar with. Instead of hitting the right button to listen to my messages I accidentally hit the button to return his call. Dang so I ended up talking to him again for a few minutes. I wanted to keep this dialogue as short as possible and get off the phone so I casually mentioned I had to go as I had to jump in the shower and hit the road to run some errands. Dude proceeds to say well you need me to wash your back? That is when I lost it and proceeded to tell him about himself.
In all the dates I have been on my life I have never had someone be so straightforward to the point where they were clearly overstepping their boundaries.
I went on a blind date last night with someone I have been talking to for approximately a week. I was not physically attracted to him when I saw him but he appeared to be with me. I can say this because he kept repeating your really attractive and the total package why are you single crap blah blah blah..... Went as far to invite me to his annual memorial day party at his house(um you don't even me know me yet) Was very boastful about the fact that all the women in his office seem to want him and are always trying to get with him( hmmm I didn't see why because he really was nothing to look at) Yeah he owns his own business and has an Mba but so did my ex boyfriend who is tall and handsome. Again I am not impressed with titles and so called financial status which it appeared he didn't have but that is not the real issue here.
I could barely talk about myself before he would throw out sexual innuendo's. Asked me if the real reason I left my ex was because he had a small peen? Really dude who asks this stuff on a first date? Managed to throw in he considered himself a passionate lover. Told me he planned to a build a house in the near future and how he had the plans at his house. Would you like to come over and see them sometime? Say what? I just hate cockiness as he told me several times I was going to be his. Is that so?
He apparently called me this afternoon despite me not checking my phone all day. Was fooling around on my new iphone which I am not all that familiar with. Instead of hitting the right button to listen to my messages I accidentally hit the button to return his call. Dang so I ended up talking to him again for a few minutes. I wanted to keep this dialogue as short as possible and get off the phone so I casually mentioned I had to go as I had to jump in the shower and hit the road to run some errands. Dude proceeds to say well you need me to wash your back? That is when I lost it and proceeded to tell him about himself.
In all the dates I have been on my life I have never had someone be so straightforward to the point where they were clearly overstepping their boundaries.