melissa-bee
Well-Known Member
How many times in your life have you met that PERFECT GUY?
Where he is just everything you could want in a man. Somebody that just ticks all your boxes and you just hit it off straight away.
I'm 22 and I for the first time I have met that perfect guy. I hung out with him for a day. And he is just everything. However there are 1 small, 1 medium and 1 large reason we cannot carry on the way we both wanted.
The small one is that he is not talking to me. If it was only that 1 reason I would have pushed my self to make up with him because it’s a minor issue IMO. However the large reason is that he is already seeing someone which he didn't want me too know, but I went and "nosy nosed" on his public Facebook profile that he is in fact in a relationship (also has his SOs name tagged in the status. This is the reason he is not talking to me.
So the reason why I ask this question is because I'm wondering how often this "perfect guy" comes around for the average lady in a life time.
I've been dating for about 7 years and this is my FIRST "perfect guy".
I know there are a lot of experienced ladies on this forum when it comes to relationships, so because I’m 22 you may think I’m just being naïve like a teenager in love. I was going to write a short paragraph on MY “perfect guy”… but it won’t be a short paragraph. I guess I can write loads of bullet points if a few show interest.
So the question I’m asking YOU is, have you met this “perfect guy” before, how many times in your life, what is/was your relationship, if you didn’t get to know him did you regret is because you haven’t found someone since????
Where he is just everything you could want in a man. Somebody that just ticks all your boxes and you just hit it off straight away.
I'm 22 and I for the first time I have met that perfect guy. I hung out with him for a day. And he is just everything. However there are 1 small, 1 medium and 1 large reason we cannot carry on the way we both wanted.
The small one is that he is not talking to me. If it was only that 1 reason I would have pushed my self to make up with him because it’s a minor issue IMO. However the large reason is that he is already seeing someone which he didn't want me too know, but I went and "nosy nosed" on his public Facebook profile that he is in fact in a relationship (also has his SOs name tagged in the status. This is the reason he is not talking to me.
So the reason why I ask this question is because I'm wondering how often this "perfect guy" comes around for the average lady in a life time.
I've been dating for about 7 years and this is my FIRST "perfect guy".
I know there are a lot of experienced ladies on this forum when it comes to relationships, so because I’m 22 you may think I’m just being naïve like a teenager in love. I was going to write a short paragraph on MY “perfect guy”… but it won’t be a short paragraph. I guess I can write loads of bullet points if a few show interest.
So the question I’m asking YOU is, have you met this “perfect guy” before, how many times in your life, what is/was your relationship, if you didn’t get to know him did you regret is because you haven’t found someone since????
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