CherryCherryBoomBoom
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A couple of weeks ago, a guy approached me in the street, gave me some compliments and asked for my number. Although I didn’t find him attractive at first glance, I was in a rush to get somewhere and so thought I’d just give him a chance anyway since I really don’t get many chances to date someone. So we later met up in a bar where we had drinks and a chance to first get to know each other. He seems like a nice person but I still don’t find him attractive. He’s texted me asking for a second date, but I’m not sure whether it’s worth me seeing him again or not. I think he likes me but I don’t feel the same way and I don’t want to waste his time. Should I give him one more chance and not be hasty, or is one date enough to know? Plus, he’s 10 years older than me so I find the age difference a bit awkward as well.
When you date, how long does it take to know if you fancy someone? Do you only accept dates from people if you instantly find them attractive? Or do you wait till first date to make up your mind? Or do you wait 2, 3, 4 or more dates?
Please help, I’m so inexperienced in this stuff
When you date, how long does it take to know if you fancy someone? Do you only accept dates from people if you instantly find them attractive? Or do you wait till first date to make up your mind? Or do you wait 2, 3, 4 or more dates?
Please help, I’m so inexperienced in this stuff