vivEz daNs lamouR
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Tonight I had a small dinner party with me and five friends. A few of them were gay men, and after a long night of dinner and drinks I decided to ask one of my friends (let's call him Henry) to scope out this guy I know and tell me if he has any feelings about him being possibly gay.
So I proceed to open up and go to FaceBook because that's where the guy's page is, and a picture of a friend of mine (we'll call her Jill) with her boyfriend (we'll call him Don) is up instead. Henry goes , as does his cousin, because he sees Don's picture and tells us that he dated him a few years ago. As a matter of fact, Henry saw Don just two weeks ago at a gay club, telling everyone that he was having a baby.
My best friend, John, who was also at this event, is MUCH closer with Jill than I am. We both get upset about this, because Jill is saying that she is in a relationship with Don, and has so many plans for them for the future. She's very excited about this pregnancy even though it was an accident. We're all almost certain that the only method of "protection" was probably birth control, if even that.
Moreover, he has her pictures all over his page as well, and leaves messages on her wall, making it seem like they're together. There's pictures up of them kissing, hugging, and acting like a couple. He's even moving back to NY from MD because of this baby.
But he's gay. And we're certain that she doesn't know.
John is wondering whether he should say anything to her and if so, how? It seems like a pandora's box at this point, because she's already pregnant, and this information won't suddenly rewind time. But at the same time, I highly, highly, doubt that she would knowingly have a homosexual man's baby. Plus, she's only 21.
Jill is someone who is very shy, very reserved, probably the sweetest person I've ever met, almost to a point where she could be called naive.
What would you do?
So I proceed to open up and go to FaceBook because that's where the guy's page is, and a picture of a friend of mine (we'll call her Jill) with her boyfriend (we'll call him Don) is up instead. Henry goes , as does his cousin, because he sees Don's picture and tells us that he dated him a few years ago. As a matter of fact, Henry saw Don just two weeks ago at a gay club, telling everyone that he was having a baby.
My best friend, John, who was also at this event, is MUCH closer with Jill than I am. We both get upset about this, because Jill is saying that she is in a relationship with Don, and has so many plans for them for the future. She's very excited about this pregnancy even though it was an accident. We're all almost certain that the only method of "protection" was probably birth control, if even that.
Moreover, he has her pictures all over his page as well, and leaves messages on her wall, making it seem like they're together. There's pictures up of them kissing, hugging, and acting like a couple. He's even moving back to NY from MD because of this baby.
But he's gay. And we're certain that she doesn't know.
John is wondering whether he should say anything to her and if so, how? It seems like a pandora's box at this point, because she's already pregnant, and this information won't suddenly rewind time. But at the same time, I highly, highly, doubt that she would knowingly have a homosexual man's baby. Plus, she's only 21.
Jill is someone who is very shy, very reserved, probably the sweetest person I've ever met, almost to a point where she could be called naive.
What would you do?
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