My fiance is bodybuilding so the best thing you can say to him write now is "ohhhhhhh look at your biceps"..."they are so big"..."can I touch them".
That keeps him happy all day long.
LOL
Also, he's a "manly" man so sometimes I do play the damsel in distress - not annoyingly so where I need help with ever thing I do and can't get my dainty little hands dirty - but sometimes I'll let him get something for me that might be high up in the cabinets or let him open a jar for me and I'm constantly saying, "Thanks! what would I have done without you!
I'm NEVER one of those kind of women that say I don't need a man. Even if I think it, I NEVER say it because I know how important it is to a man to feel like he has a place and that he is wanted, needed, and adored as if he were Zeus.
Of course only offer that if he's holding up his end of the bargain. Don't reward bad behavior.
erplexed
Also, I cater to him quite a bit. If he's had a rough day I'll give him a pedicure (I call it a foot rub because he won't do it if I say pedicure.) but I still break out the pumice stone and some mint foot cream. He loves it.
I'll give him back massages and make whatever he wants to eat (but since he's bodybuilding his choices are pretty bland these days).
I always tell him that's he THE best and that he's the one for me AND I never ever "look" even if I see a fine man walk past....well (if I do look) I'm never ever obvious about it.